are you in a relationship?

[all the same]

Another poll! Or should I say pole? :lol: Do it!

[amber]

I'm in two 1/4 relationships, which equals 1/2 relationship. :thumbsup: They are also friendships, though, is why.

[all the same]

I'm in two 1/4 relationships, which equals 1/2 relationship. :thumbsup: They are also friendships, though, is why.

HAH! You were too quick! I was working on the poll! :thumbsup:

[StevieNicksEO17]

Happily single. woot.

[Johnny Stew]

With all due respect to the guys I've dated before (well, the ones who deserve respect, at least), I'm very happily in the best relationship I've ever had. And we're coming up on our six-month anniversary. :woohoo:


Ok, back to bed I go. :cool:

[ontheEdgeof17]

Happily single!

I don't need anyone right now. I'm in my own little world.

[amber]

Another poll! Or should I say pole? :lol: Do it!
:lol:
Your last choice is awesome.

[StevieNicksEO17]

I can't date anyone when Stevie or FM is on tour. They don't want constantly hear about it, and they don't want to take me to concerts. So, I try and warn people when it is concert season. I guess it's unbearable :shrug:

[estranged4life]

and unhappily insomniacing.

[xdreamsunwindx]

I'm single and.. well.. a little bitter about it. But, I didn't choose the first option as it seemed a little too intense, and kinda Morrisey-like.

God. Someone unplug my computer, because I'm making no sense. WOO.

[xxxmx]

i'd probably have more of a life if someone took away my computer. i've got the ledge and MLB live. i'm sorry, i have not yet found love that can compete with stevie nicks and the red sox, let alone win... :rolleyes:

[GODDESS6]

happily married, been w/ hubby 19 yrs :xoxo: ~

[ryan8472]

I'm single and.. well.. a little bitter about it. But, I didn't choose the first option as it seemed a little too intense, and kinda Morrisey-like.

God. Someone unplug my computer, because I'm making no sense. WOO.
Same here, except I chose the first choice instead. I'm a hermit. :laugh:

I should've chosen the 2nd one...whatev.

[DrummerDeanna]

I chose the first choice :laugh:

[CrystalVisions]

happily married to hubby, going on 16 years! :xoxo:

[GateandGarden]

Sometimes I'm bitter about being single, other times I prefer it.

[DrummerDeanna]

Sometimes I'm bitter about being single, other times I prefer it.


Right. I'm actually the same way most of the time - I haven't met anyone worth giving up my single-dom....:D

still - I also get bitter about being so damn single sometimes.

[KarmaContestant]

I am very single....I would be alone in my room, except that my computer is in the living room....and I have a roommate to keep me company (when his nose isn't in a book).

I ended my last relationship back in February 2002. Sometimes I forget why I did it, and yes, I'm lonely from time to time. Between 18 & 28, I had three long term relationships, each lasted about three years - give or take a few months here and there. By the age of 28, I had decided that I had had enough of it all. I dumped my guy, gracefully and compassionately, and have been on my own ever since. I'll lie and say it's nice to be single....though I sometimes wish I weren't so alone. I will admit to having small moments of sadness when I see other couples who are obviously happy....cause I miss that... But, I just remind myself that it was I who wanted to be alone, I who needed to grow into myself, and I who felt like I needed to discover what was 'out there' and what my place in the world is - and what I wanted from it. After three years....nothing has changed really....except that I'm stronger emotionally, and I work more. :shrug:

Sometimes, I hear Stevie sing that lyric from Doing The Best That I Can....and I flinch a little, 'cause it's me...."she thought she was out there, but nobody saw...."

I'm not looking for a partner...I'm not dating anyone....I only want to do the 'relationship thing' once more....so it better be right....but when he finds me, I'll know. :cool:

[dissention]

I'm partly single and partly in a relationship. It's nothing serious, though, so I don't know what I'd call it. F*ckbuddy is too crude a word for me to use this morning, but give me a few hours and that's probably what I'd call it.

[WildInTheWind]

I'm in the best relationship I've ever been in. We looked at engagment rings last week so it probably won't be long till we get married :D It's just a matter of him saving up money now!

[catinthedark]

Right. I'm actually the same way most of the time - I haven't met anyone worth giving up my single-dom....:D

still - I also get bitter about being so damn single sometimes.

Yup - that just about sums up my life, too. I've had my chances... but something has always stopped me from taking the proverbial plunge. I'm not one to settle, and I enjoy my own company, so I'm not completely miserable. I also have great friends, so I'm not at all a loner. Bitter, every so often, for sure, though! I sometimes look at couples and go, okay, if they found someone, what's wrong with meeeeee? :laugh: My first true love just set the bar too damned high. *sigh*

[all the same]

I'm single and.. well.. a little bitter about it. But, I didn't choose the first option as it seemed a little too intense, and kinda Morrisey-like.

God. Someone unplug my computer, because I'm making no sense. WOO.

Morrissey... *swoon*

[Neal]

I am recently single (again!). And as much as I'd like to not be, I know if I were to pursue something with someone at this point it would just be to distract myself and avoid dealing with sh*t in my own life that needs to be dealt with before I drag someone else down... :rolleyes:

But I still chose the second option :woohoo: .

[WELSH WITCH]

Like Deanna I haven't found anyone worth giving up my single-dom for and I don't really mind.
I'm a happy single as they call it.

[wondergirl9847]

I've never been in a relationship (that thing from high school doesn't count :rolleyes: ). I like being single, but it would be nice to go out every once in a while with a great guy. :)

[estranged4life]

I've never been in a relationship (that thing from high school doesn't count :rolleyes: ). I like being single, but it would be nice to go out every once in a while with a great guy. :)

she has her ongoing relationships with LB & KU...So why f**kin' lie to us???

[HomerMcvie]

Yup - that just about sums up my life, too. I've had my chances... but something has always stopped me from taking the proverbial plunge. I'm not one to settle, and I enjoy my own company, so I'm not completely miserable. I also have great friends, so I'm not at all a loner. Bitter, every so often, for sure, though! I sometimes look at couples and go, okay, if they found someone, what's wrong with meeeeee? :laugh: My first true love just set the bar too damned high. *sigh*
Did I type this?

[wondergirl9847]

she has her ongoing relationships with LB & KU...So why f**kin' lie to us???

Did I not pay you enough to keep yo mouf shut?!

:laugh:

[greatdarkwing]

I'm recently single, just got out of an 8 month relationship, and Im ready to get back into the dating world. Its wierd starting fresh again, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

Any willing single female Ledgies out there? :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

I'm recently single, just got out of an 8 month relationship, and Im ready to get back into the dating world. Its wierd starting fresh again, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

Any willing single female Ledgies out there? :laugh:


Hey - what happened to the GF - you all were a little hot and heavy there for awhile - oh well, her loss is Miami's gain ;) :D

[estranged4life]

Did I not pay you enough to keep yo mouf shut?!

:laugh:

Eric Cartman would say:

"What-evah...What-evah...I'll do what I want!!!"

[The Tower]

Morrissey... *swoon*
Don't even get me started, missy... I worship Morrissey. I'm gonna hafta post a picture of him in the hotties thread.

The topic at hand?? I'm an old married fart- about one month to our 12 year anniversary. Who sez gays don't stay together??

[wondergirl9847]

Eric Cartman would say:

"What-evah...What-evah...I'll do what I want!!!"

Wha-evah, wha-evah! I'm in twelve gangs and we only commit hate crimes, wha-evah! Maury, I am outta control, yeah, I have sex, it's my hot body, I'll do what I want, b*tch!

:lol::lol:

[GypsySorcerer]

Wha-evah, wha-evah! I'm in twelve gangs and we only commit hate crimes, wha-evah! Maury, I am outta control, yeah, I have sex, it's my hot body, I'll do what I want, b*tch!

:lol::lol:

Probably my favorite moment in South Park history. :lol:

[wondergirl9847]

That ep was on like last week...I HAD to watch it for like the 3rd or 4th time. It's hysterical, one of my faves.

When his mom is all "No, he's my perfect little angel." and Cartman goes "Mam, we're trying to get stuff, sex and drugs." and she goes "Oh, right, sex and drugs." BWAH!!!

[GypsySorcerer]

That ep was on like last week...I HAD to watch it for like the 3rd or 4th time. It's hysterical, one of my faves.

When his mom is all "No, he's my perfect little angel." and Cartman goes "Mam, we're trying to get stuff, sex and drugs." and she goes "Oh, right, sex and drugs." BWAH!!!

I'd love to see it again...

It was even funnier because I used to watch Maury Perv-ich and I just pictured them when Cartman was doing his thang. Funny stuff. :]

[wondergirl9847]

If you go here, you can download audio/video clips from SP. That ep is on there somewhere.

South Park clips (http://www.southparkstudios.com/downloads/images.php?season=1)

[amber]

If you go here, you can download audio/video clips from SP. That ep is on there somewhere.

South Park clips (http://www.southparkstudios.com/downloads/images.php?season=1)
Thank you sooooo much. :woohoo:

[GypsySorcerer]

If you go here, you can download audio/video clips from SP. That ep is on there somewhere.

South Park clips (http://www.southparkstudios.com/downloads/images.php?season=1)

Thanks! :xoxo:

[Josh2003]

Hitting the one-month mark tomorrow!

That came after nearly five months of sadness and bitterness at an asshole who up and wanted to end things with me out of the blue.

Needless to say, I'm very, very happy :-)

[SuzeQuze]

Oh man, that show is nuts. Apparently the next one to air is "Passion of the Jew" where Kyle watches Passion of the Christ, here is an image of him after watching.

http://images.southparkstudios.com/media/images/804/804_image_25.jpg

:lol: Oh man I have to get off that site NOW.

[amber]

Oh man, that show is nuts. Apparently the next one to air is "Passion of the Jew" where Kyle watches Passion of the Christ, here is an image of him after watching.

http://images.southparkstudios.com/media/images/804/804_image_25.jpg

:lol: Oh man I have to get off that site NOW.
Did you have to log in to watch the downloads/clips? I hit "dowloads" but didn't get anything.

[wondergirl9847]

Off to the right, click on downloads, then, on video, or audio, or wallpaper. It will bring up all the videos and stuff there, then you just click download. It will come up as a Quicktime video.

[xxxmx]

Any willing single female Ledgies out there? :laugh:
willing? check.
single? check.
female? check.
ledgie? check.

i even live in florida, how convenient...

now i have to ask, are you stevie nicks? a close personal friend of hers? do you play for the red sox? have season tickets? bwaha...

[amber]

Off to the right, click on downloads, then, on video, or audio, or wallpaper. It will bring up all the videos and stuff there, then you just click download. It will come up as a Quicktime video.
Kick Ayess! Thanks, Christy. Der. :rolleyes:

[ontheEdgeof17]

Um...You're welcome, Curtis...? :confused:


Wrong "inthesky"

Mirror said he had a dream about me.

:sorry:

[dissention]

there are about four year's worth of things I feel I have to improve about myself before being in one. :)

:lol:

That's everyone!

[bretonbanquet]

I'm happily single - have been for a loooooong time. Wasn't always happy about it, but hey - let's not be bitter about something you can't change :rolleyes:

[catinthedark]

Did I type this?

Doh! Sorry if you're going through the same thing. I fear I will be the eternal dater. Can be fun, but not always the most satisfying...

[seeker007nmss]

Single.....old.......stevie...computer..... That about sums it up. :nod:

[SuzeQuze]

...Thanks, Josh...It's nice to know I'm not alone! :)

No you're not. But think less about what you think you need to "fix" and more about who is acceptable to you, when you're ready.

When I think back one thing I would have done differently is compromise LESS of myself when I was younger. This is a healthier way to be. You are so young there is no rush to be in a relationship, is there? If I had it to do over again I would have dated when I was young instead of serial super-close relationships. Too young/ too confusing. I guess you gotta play the way you feel it though. I was so different then.

[sparky]

Happily Single.

I do frequent test drives, but mostly just for the fun of it.

If Mr. Hunky Dreamboat showed up, I might consider dating.

He'd better be something though, to make me even think about it.

[WelshWitchPMD]

I picked number 2. I too am a hermit. Maybe I'll hook up with another hermit but really how would we meet? :lol:

[bretonbanquet]

I picked number 2. I too am a hermit. Maybe I'll hook up with another hermit but really how would we meet? :lol:

I suspect you'd meet on the Ledge! :blob1:

[GateandGarden]

Wrong "inthesky"

Mirror said he had a dream about me.

:sorry:I got them confused one time too! :lol: I'm glad I'm not the only one! I remember one time I thought Justin was Mirror and so I was thinking he was gay, but then now he's out and they're both gay so it doesn't matter...damn, this doesn't make sense. Okay, the point is that I got them mixed up on the board a few months ago, so you're not alone. :laugh:

[SteveMacD]

HOPELESSLY SINGLE!!!
What seriously sucks is that I'm going to a wedding next weekend. I HATE going to weddings, because I always feel like I'm the only single dude there. Of course, it doesn't help that my dream wedding is a JP wedding with lunch at Burger King. :distress:

[SuzeQuze]

I picked number 2. I too am a hermit. Maybe I'll hook up with another hermit but really how would we meet? :lol:

I was secretly hoping maybe my dad would talk to you when you guys met, hehe. He really isn't that old, he is 52. I guess that might be too old. But he is a hermit! And obviously not that great socially. :rolleyes: Plus, you had been standing in the heat all day so the last thing on your mind probly was meeting someone. I think he kind of looks like Lindsey.

[Serendipity]

There wasnt one for irritatingly engaged to childhood sweetheart....bless him that poor man puts up with so much. A 'casual' FM fan, his mum gave me "Rumours" three years ago and created a monster. He just rolls his eyes and nods when I quote Stevie in everyday conversation..I think he might be a keeper. :D

~Nicki

[HomerMcvie]

Doh! Sorry if you're going through the same thing. I fear I will be the eternal dater. Can be fun, but not always the most satisfying...
Well, the thing that hit me hardest about your post was:My first true love just set the bar too damned high I fell HARD about 6 years ago. But, apparently, it wasn't meant to be(not by MY choice :( ). I was as down as I've ever been. I'm still not over it. I doubt I ever will be. And I've not dated since(although I've had quite a few offers). I literally have no interest. I can't settle for less.
How depressing. :sorry:

[SuzeQuze]

Well, the thing that hit me hardest about your post was: I fell HARD about 6 years ago. But, apparently, it wasn't meant to be(not by MY choice :( ). I was as down as I've ever been. I'm still not over it. I doubt I ever will be. And I've not dated since(although I've had quite a few offers). I literally have no interest. I can't settle for less.
How depressing. :sorry:

Wow, that is a long time to not date. :( There is life after a breakup! But dating does suck. I broke up with the BF in Dec and haven't had a date. Stupid dating.

[Mad4stevie]

Anyone out there in a relationship and has thought about being single again?

*RAISES HAND*

That wasn't a choice in the poll . . .

[SteveMacD]

Anyone out there in a relationship and has thought about being single again?

*RAISES HAND*

That wasn't a choice in the poll . . .
Paul Simon is suddenly playing in my head :shrug:

[CreepingDeath]

Anyone out there in a relationship and has thought about being single again?

*RAISES HAND*

That wasn't a choice in the poll . . .

Ah, that's me as well. I've been with my BF for 5 years and I really love him, but OMG do we fight constantly. Lately he's been way too controlling/jealous. Basically, he thinks every guy friend I have I'm sleeping with. Despite the fact that most of them are gay. :rolleyes:

Damn him and his irresistible English accent anyway. :nod:

[amber]

Paul Simon is suddenly playing in my head :shrug:
50 Ways to Leave Your Lovah?

[WelshWitchPMD]

I was secretly hoping maybe my dad would talk to you when you guys met, hehe. He really isn't that old, he is 52. I guess that might be too old. But he is a hermit! And obviously not that great socially. :rolleyes: Plus, you had been standing in the heat all day so the last thing on your mind probly was meeting someone. I think he kind of looks like Lindsey.

Aww. actually your Dad seemed cute and sweet. He is young compared to my Dad who will be 79 tomorrow. It is very hard to meet someone when you don't like to go out. LOL
I have to laugh because I think to myself how am I going to meet anyone and my first date was with a guy who came to fix our fridge. :lol:
I am not that great socially either and actually when I do go out all that I think about is the fact that I can't wait to come home and go online. I don't mean dating either just being out with friends and I have one friend who will say to me 'what is the matter? You want to go home and play on that darn thing, right?" Of course they are right.

[Mad4stevie]

Paul Simon is suddenly playing in my head :shrug:

I love that song! :lol: It was the one that first introduced me to his music.

[Mad4stevie]

Ah, that's me as well. I've been with my BF for 5 years and I really love him, but OMG do we fight constantly. Lately he's been way too controlling/jealous. Basically, he thinks every guy friend I have I'm sleeping with. Despite the fact that most of them are gay. :rolleyes:

Damn him and his irresistible English accent anyway. :nod:

My current situation is not one that I ever expected to find myself in . . . let's just say that I need to find an Al-Anon group . . :(

[Nico]

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 years. We've been living together for about 4. It's really weird because many of my friends are getting married and having children and I'm so not ready for any of that. We (boyfriend and me) have discussed it, and we both decided whenever the time is right we'll know and there won't be a question about it.

It's a little depressing to watch these programs where they go over the statistics of unmarried couples living together. The probablity of separation and divorce being higher...plus your friends who are married/getting married/have or are having kids begin speaking in condescending tones regarding your relationship.

Plus my mom! Dammit, she's the worse: "You really need to be contemplating your future and thinking about marriage already...you are 24 and you aren't a child anymore, and you need to start being serious about your life for one moment and blah, blah, blah..." Most of the time I feel like I get that "look-at-you-filthy-fornicating-immoral-little-tramp-why-can't-you-be-decent-and-honor-your-parents" look from my parents' friends. :rolleyes: It 'aint easy I tell you...

(And it doesn't help when my little brother- who is 20 for gawdsakes-is married with a child. I mean, sheesh!)

[GateandGarden]

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 years. We've been living together for about 4. It's really weird because many of my friends are getting married and having children and I'm so not ready for any of that. We (boyfriend and me) have discussed it, and we both decided whenever the time is right we'll know and there won't be a question about it.

It's a little depressing to watch these programs where they go over the statistics of unmarried couples living together. The probablity of separation and divorce being higher...plus your friends who are married/getting married/have or are having kids begin speaking in condescending tones regarding your relationship.

Plus my mom! Dammit, she's the worse: "You really need to be contemplating your future and thinking about marriage already...you are 24 and you aren't a child anymore, and you need to start being serious about your life for one moment and blah, blah, blah..." Most of the time I feel like I get that "look-at-you-filthy-fornicating-immoral-little-tramp-why-can't-you-be-decent-and-honor-your-parents" look from my parents' friends. :rolleyes: It 'aint easy I tell you...

(And it doesn't help when my little brother- who is 20 for gawdsakes-is married with a child. I mean, sheesh!)
People need to get it out of their heads that a couple can't be happy and complete without being married. I'll be glad when that out-of-style viewpoint is gone, though I don't know if it ever will be gone completely.

I don't know your parents' friends but I think it's plainly idiotic for them to look down on someone like you.

[DrummerDeanna]

People need to get it out of their heads that a couple can't be happy and complete without being married. I'll be glad when that out-of-style viewpoint is gone, though I don't know if it ever will be gone completely.

I don't know your parents' friends but I think it's plainly idiotic for them to look down on someone like you.


I agree - people do need to get it out of their heads that the end all be all of a relationship is marriage and children :nod:

[Nico]

People need to get it out of their heads that a couple can't be happy and complete without being married. I'll be glad when that out-of-style viewpoint is gone, though I don't know if it ever will be gone completely.

I don't know your parents' friends but I think it's plainly idiotic for them to look down on someone like you.


:xoxo: Hil, I was just thinking about you (and I'm reading your blog right now!) I promise you I will email you back by this weekend. Promise. And I promise the other promise I said in the email too...yeah, that made sense. lol!

[Nico]

I agree - people do need to get it out of their heads that the end all be all of a relationship is marriage and children :nod:

Yes!! People should just get a clue that we are living in a different time and stop getting all uptight and fussy about other people's lives. I'm at a point in my life where I really feel good but I'm not ready to take any steps or leaps or any of that crap...I'm happy at the here and now and I feel like having a few big adventures before tying myself down completely.

And I honestly feel that anyone out there who is single or isn't ready to marry should not have to feel bad about it in any way. :nod: Life is far too short to let meddling old hags and whatnot bother you. K, that was mean, but still...I mean it.

[LEATHER&LACE64]

Anyone out there in a relationship and has thought about being single again?



. . .

my thoughts everyday lately.....

[macfanken]

I fell HARD about 6 years ago. But, apparently, it wasn't meant to be(not by MY choice :( ). I was as down as I've ever been. I'm still not over it. I doubt I ever will be. And I've not dated since(although I've had quite a few offers). I literally have no interest. I can't settle for less.
How depressing. :sorry:


I was in a 3 year on and off relationship that finally ended for good over a year ago... I know that this is the one that I'll never get over. :distress: I've dated a couple of times since then but I haven't felt that same connection.

[macfanken]

Oh, btw, I'm currently a combination of

very single, like "and now alone in my room as it all begins again" single

and

i just sorta get it when i need it. don't do dating or relationships really.

Does that make sense?

[all the same]

Oh, btw, I'm currently a combination of

very single, like "and now alone in my room as it all begins again" single

and

i just sorta get it when i need it. don't do dating or relationships really.

Does that make sense?

Makes perfect sense. I'm missing the "I just sorta get it when I need it" chromosome. :lol: wish I had it.

[sparky]

Makes perfect sense. I'm missing the "I just sorta get it when I need it" chromosome. :lol: wish I had it.

I am living proof that it can emerge like a ghostly wisdom tooth. And completely without warning. :wavey:

[greatdarkwing]

Hey - what happened to the GF - you all were a little hot and heavy there for awhile - oh well, her loss is Miami's gain ;) :D

All those single Miami women better watch out, cause Alex is on the prowl :laugh:

As far as Lauren goes, yeah we were hot and heavy to say the least. Hell, we even went to Vegas together twice....It was probably the funnest relationship I have had, but her and I just couldn't see eye to eye on alot of stuff, so I had to finally pull the plug. We still talk, which is wierd, cause she always asks..."So, whats new? Anything new in your life?" Oh, just come out and ask me what you REALLLY want to say... "Any new girls in your life?!" LOL!! :laugh:

But yes, Miami girls better watch out.....

[amber]

Makes perfect sense. I'm missing the "I just sorta get it when I need it" chromosome. :lol: wish I had it.
Work it out! C'mon! quit whining and go have some sex! Hit it! Now! GO GO GO GO GO!!!!!!









:laugh:

[dissention]

All those single Miami women better watch out, cause Alex is on the prowl :laugh:

As far as Lauren goes, yeah we were hot and heavy to say the least. Hell, we even went to Vegas together twice....It was probably the funnest relationship I have had, but her and I just couldn't see eye to eye on alot of stuff, so I had to finally pull the plug. We still talk, which is wierd, cause she always asks..."So, whats new? Anything new in your life?" Oh, just come out and ask me what you REALLLY want to say... "Any new girls in your life?!" LOL!! :laugh:

But yes, Miami girls better watch out.....

Ah...she must have been a Democrat. :eek: :laugh:

[greatdarkwing]

Ah...she must have been a Democrat. :eek: :laugh:

Want to laugh really hard? My longest and best relationships have been with liberal girls :lol:

Ever get the feeling God is into practical jokes?

[GateandGarden]

:xoxo: Hil, I was just thinking about you (and I'm reading your blog right now!) I promise you I will email you back by this weekend. Promise. And I promise the other promise I said in the email too...yeah, that made sense. lol!Love ya. :xoxo:

[all the same]

Work it out! C'mon! quit whining and go have some sex! Hit it! Now! GO GO GO GO GO!!!!!!

:laugh:

:lol: Yeah... you're right. Random sex isn't what i want though. I wish it was. :distress:

[xdreamsunwindx]

Morrissey... *swoon*

Meh. I'll take Robert Smith any day.

Booooooys dooooooon't crryyyyyyyyy... <3

[all the same]

Meh. I'll take Robert Smith any day.

Booooooys dooooooon't crryyyyyyyyy... <3

I'll take him too but I'm more into Morrissey. Do you know about their feud? I think it's hilarious! Robert Smith said he has never liked Morrissey's music. Apparently Morrissey will trash talk Robert Smith whenever gets the chance! HAH!

[sparky]

:lol: Yeah... you're right. Random sex isn't what i want though. I wish it was. :distress:


You wish it was what you wanted ? That is interesting.

Maybe if you wish a lot more, you'll want it? :laugh:

It's not for everyone. And the alternative must be satisfying ! Been on both sides of that fence, myself. Depends on the year...kinda.

[sparky]

I'll take him too but I'm more into Morrissey. Do you know about their feud? I think it's hilarious! Robert Smith said he has never liked Morrissey's music. Apparently Morrissey will trash talk Robert Smith whenever gets the chance! HAH!

"This town ain't big enough for two dreary English queens, Morrissey. You're goin dooooown.... ":blob2:

[xdreamsunwindx]

I'll take him too but I'm more into Morrissey. Do you know about their feud? I think it's hilarious! Robert Smith said he has never liked Morrissey's music. Apparently Morrissey will trash talk Robert Smith whenever gets the chance! HAH!

Hahaha. That's funny. It's like, who can be the weepiest, eyeliner-clad english mope rocker?

I'd say Moz, since, well, he's more weepy. Robert tends to make me happy. <3

[Johnny Stew]

Random sex isn't what i want though. I wish it was. :distress:Pre-Joshua (my boyfriend), I always said that my love-life would've been a lot less complicated if I was just into the random hookups that all the other gay guys around here seem to be into. (Well, not ALL the gay guys around here. We also have our fair share of the "you seem nice -- so since I'm single and you're single, let's move in together this weekend" guys.)

Some of us just don't seem to be "wired" for it though, so I feel your pain.

[Mokona]

Can I be a hermit and a married woman? I've been married for close to four years and the most fun we've had in the last year or so are FM and Stevie concerts! He got into FM and Stevie because of me. He's not a die-hard fan like I am, but he has been more than generous about my need for concerts. ;)

But most of the time I enjoy staying home and reading manga, watching anime, listening to Stevie, visiting my sites and lately getting all interested in space and flying again. What a dork I am. :p

[all the same]

Hahaha. That's funny. It's like, who can be the weepiest, eyeliner-clad english mope rocker?

I'd say Moz, since, well, he's more weepy. Robert tends to make me happy. <3

Me too! Unless it's a song like Trust which basically puts me on the kitchen floor. I'm a mess when I listen to Trust.

[Johnny Stew]

:shocked: That's scary. Practically the scariest words I've read here since "husband hunters."I won't lie, Justin... it won't be easy being one of the "relationship oriented" guys, because you do get quickly written off by the guys who "just want to have a good time," and you also get quickly latched onto by the guys who are desperately seeking someone, anyone.

Of course, the guys in both extremes do make it a little easier for you in many aspects, because they basically weed themselves out!

But there are guys out there who aren't going to rush you into a relationship because they wanted to be "married" yesterday, and there are also guys out there who won't go into panic mode at the very thought of something even remotely resembling commitment. It's just a little harder to find them. :)

[all the same]

Pre-Joshua (my boyfriend), I always said that my love-life would've been a lot less complicated if I was just into the random hookups that all the other gay guys around here seem to be into. (Well, not ALL the gay guys around here. We also have our fair share of the "you seem nice -- so since I'm single and you're single, let's move in together this weekend" guys.)

Some of us just don't seem to be "wired" for it though, so I feel your pain.

I'm glad you get it! I feel like one of the few who won't just **** around with someone. Not that I haven't done it, I just end up feeling worse after than I did before. Some people can just enjoy the physical at the time. Myself, I feel like I need more than that. :shrug:

[all the same]

Sometimes I'm bitter about being single, other times I prefer it.

I;'m the same way too. My singleness is like an organism too. Sometimes it gets hungry, other times, it's doin' just fine! :D

[Johnny Stew]

I feel like one of the few who won't just **** around with someone. Not that I haven't done it, I just end up feeling worse after than I did before."The loneliness of a one-night stand is hard to take...."

I learned how true those words were, and knew I never wanted to feel like that again. :distress:

Some people can just enjoy the physical at the time. Myself, I feel like I need more than that. :shrug:I know what you mean.
The bad part of it is, that most guys then assume that you want to be madly in love with them before you'll do anything, so they run the other direction... when it's not really that at all. It's just that you want to feel a little deeper of a connection than just mutual horniness.

But don't worry too much... guys like you and I are out there. I know that for a fact. :D
You will find someone.

[macfanken]

I'm glad you get it! I feel like one of the few who won't just **** around with someone. Not that I haven't done it, I just end up feeling worse after than I did before. Some people can just enjoy the physical at the time. Myself, I feel like I need more than that. :shrug:


I usually feel like being celibate for a really long time after a one night stand. :lol: