crushes...

[all the same]

You would think I'd be past the "crush" stage in my life, but I still get MAJOR crushes on people. Anybody else?

The current crush:

I've had a crush on a guy who used to work at a local martini bar for like more than a year. We've been dancing around each other the whole time, or at least I think we have.

The lame thing about crushes is deep down you don't want anything to ever happen between you and the person you have a crush on 'cause it will kill the organism that is the crush. Crushes are like living, breathing things. They're really strange. If you watched My So-Called Life, Angela talks about her crush on Jordan like that.

So.... who else has a crush and wants to blither about it? :lol:

[DrummerDeanna]

Oh I still get the occassional crush - sadly I haven't had one in about a year :(

My last was last summer while working at NPR - omg - I had the biggest crush on a guy who worked there....and yeah - good description of the crush by you and Angela lol - totally living, breathing things- I tend to obsess a bit (not in a scary way) - and I get really intense crushes. *sigh* I miss having crushes - no one here has captured my fancy yet.

[all the same]

Oh I still get the occassional crush - sadly I haven't had one in about a year :(

My last was last summer while working at NPR - omg - I had the biggest crush on a guy who worked there....and yeah - good description of the crush by you and Angela lol - totally living, breathing things- I tend to obsess a bit (not in a scary way) - and I get really intense crushes. *sigh* I miss having crushes - no one here has captured my fancy yet.

I'm glad you said you obsess. I totally do too. Crushes become all consuming! And it's weird, but yeah, when you don't have a crush, you kinda want one but when you have one, you just want to bash your skull in to get rid of it! I feel like one of these retards ------> :blob2: :]

[catinthedark]

*sigh*

I get crushes all the time. My current major one... Deanna knows about him! :wavey: (We went out again the other night - six weeks after the first time! Most pleasant shock of my life :) ).

But I also have lots of little crushes on guys I work with. I love it. I love the harmless flirting with some of them, I love the secret lusting about others of them...

I confess. I'm a crush slut. :o

[DrummerDeanna]

I'm glad you said you obsess. I totally do too. Crushes become all consuming! And it's weird, but yeah, when you don't have a crush, you kinda want one but when you have one, you just want to bash your skull in to get rid of it! I feel like one of these retards ------> :blob2: :]


:nod: Seriously.

I have such the obsessive personality (again not in a scary way) - and when I have a crush it's just crazy. Last summer's was nuts - but SO MUCH FUN!!! And the guy was all flirty - so that made it all the more fun/torturous.

I do miss it when I don't have a crush - in recent years I have begun to appreciate the animal that is the crush - and I just enjoy it. Stupid non-interesting Rochester boys :mad: I just haven't met anyone crushworthy.

[DrummerDeanna]

*sigh*

I get crushes all the time. My current major one... Deanna knows about him! :wavey: (We went out again the other night - six weeks after the first time! Most pleasant shock of my life :) ).

But I also have lots of little crushes on guys I work with. I love it. I love the harmless flirting with some of them, I love the secret lusting about others of them...

I confess. I'm a crush slut. :o


Oh wow! You went out again! Right on! I have been thinking of trekking down to DC to see last summer's crush :laugh: My e-mail thing totally isn't going to work...:\

Crush slut :laugh: I like that.

[JazmenFlowers]

oh gosh - crushes...they exhaust me, but they are so fun. my current crush is a runner at the law firm where I work...boy, is he stupid, not an ounce of intelligence, but he is so cute and sweet

[all the same]

oh gosh - crushes...they exhaust me, but they are so fun. my current crush is a runner at the law firm where I work...boy, is he stupid, not an ounce of intelligence, but he is so cute and sweet

:lol: :lol: :lol: Those are the worst damn crushes of all! The ones where the person is so clearly not even cool, but you just have these weird lusty desires for them! Seriously, crushes are an organism, like a parasite that crawls into your brain and digs its pincher into the boner part of your brain! :lol:

[all the same]

*sigh*

I get crushes all the time. My current major one... Deanna knows about him! :wavey: (We went out again the other night - six weeks after the first time! Most pleasant shock of my life :) ).

But I also have lots of little crushes on guys I work with. I love it. I love the harmless flirting with some of them, I love the secret lusting about others of them...

I confess. I'm a crush slut. :o

You're going out with a crush? Your head must be ready to explode! :lol:

[catinthedark]

You're going out with a crush? Your head must be ready to explode! :lol:

I seriously haven't slept more than 5 hours a night (badly) for the past 3 days. I am exhausted! I wake up thinking about him. It's totally crazy. Because I don't know if this is going anywhere - or if we're destined to be friends forever... *sigh* I need Stevie to write me a heartbreak/crush/undying love song... :laugh:

[catinthedark]

I have been thinking of trekking down to DC to see last summer's crush :laugh:

Oooooh.... DO IT!!! You have nothing to lose!! :nod:

Crush slut :laugh: I like that.

That's me! :wavey:

[all the same]

I seriously haven't slept more than 5 hours a night (badly) for the past 3 days. I am exhausted! I wake up thinking about him. It's totally crazy. Because I don't know if this is going anywhere - or if we're destined to be friends forever... *sigh* I need Stevie to write me a heartbreak/crush/undying love song... :laugh:

I've got a catalogue of those kinda songs! But most are "you will never be loved so kill yourself" types. You likely don't want to hear them! :lol:

[JazmenFlowers]

:lol: :lol: :lol: Those are the worst damn crushes of all! The ones where the person is so clearly not even cool, but you just have these weird lusty desires for them! Seriously, crushes are an organism, like a parasite that crawls into your brain and digs its pincher into the boner part of your brain! :lol:


lol - now, don't get me wrong, his bod is H.O.T and has a cute face and shaved head. Lord, chile, fan me...

He has these green Banana Republic pants he wears...lord, (insert Shirley Q. Liquor joke).

ha

[seeker007nmss]

Now - what would YOU do if someone had a crush on you and you didn't feel the same? Just curious. How would you handle it? :shrug: (Just for discussion - not meant to be for anyone in particular). :D

[DrummerDeanna]

Now - what would YOU do if someone had a crush on you and you didn't feel the same? Just curious. How would you handle it? :shrug: (Just for discussion - not meant to be for anyone in particular). :D


Um -that's pretty much always the case :laugh: The question should be what would I do if the person actually DID feel the same way lol.

But I've never actually acted on one of my intense crazy crushes - because I just assumed they'd be unrequited. If I were to officially find that were true I'd hold my head up and realize that not everything can work out - and that it's just not meant to be - that is after I spend hours and day crying my pathetic eyes out. :D

[Neal]

I'm currently in the midst of a dry spell, so pretty much I'm crushing on just about every guy in my life right now! Pathetic, I know... :o

But anyways, my primary crush is the bartender at the club I hang out at the most. He's a little bit older, which I'm not usually attracted to, but has a great body and is a huge flirt! I've always been a sucker for bartenders though. And pizza boys. If you can get me drunk or feed me, I'm all yours!!! :cool:

[SuzeQuze]

Now - what would YOU do if someone had a crush on you and you didn't feel the same? Just curious. How would you handle it? :shrug: (Just for discussion - not meant to be for anyone in particular). :D

Try to be friends with them until, right after they tell you they think they've fallen in love with someone, they proposition you. Then not be friends.

Its a really uncomfortable position to be in. Very flattering but agonizing because you cannot force those kinds of feelings. No matter how much the person says they're fine with being friends they're never satisfied with that.

[DrummerDeanna]

Try to be friends with them until, right after they tell you they think they've fallen in love with someone, they proposition you. Then not be friends.

Its a really uncomfortable position to be in. Very flattering but agonizing because you cannot force those kinds of feelings. No matter how much the person says they're fine with being friends they're never satisfied with that.


OH!!

I'm an idiot - I totally misread Seeker's question :laugh:

[DrummerDeanna]

Ok - so someone having a crush on me that I don't feel the same way about - I've actually got two of that situation going on right now - both situations vastly different.

I tried to remain friends with both guys - it's worked with one - he's a good guy, and calls me lovely ego-building nicknames - but understands the boundaries and the fact that I don't feel the same way.

The other guy? IDIOT! I told him MANY TIMES that I am not interested - the first he seemed cool so we continued to be friends - then one night he literally went through EVERYTHING I'd said/done and outlined how he though that my words/actions meant I like him :rolleyes:

So I pretty much stopped talking to him after that until he begged me to be friends again - I felt bad and so I agreed - then one night at a bar I was very drunk, and he followed me to the bathroom (he was not drunk) and tried to kiss me etc...I was drunk but not THAT drunk and I shoved him out of my way and left....to find out he then told everyone we were with that I made out with him WTF!?!

So um I basically yelled at him and told him to go away, I would never ever go out with him.

So um - usually I try to be nice about it and stay friends - until the other person ends up being a putz in which case they get bitchy me.

[sparky]

I have a bit of a crush on this little latin bodybuilder at my gym. He is adorable. I see him out occasionally. With his boyfriend. We talk and hang out, and I enyoy the heck out of it.

[all the same]

I'm currently in the midst of a dry spell, so pretty I'm crushing on just about every guy in my life right now! Pathetic, I know... :o

Uhhh... I can totally relate. I'm awesome :cool: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Neal]

Uhhh... I can totally relate. I'm awesome :cool: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Well that explains your dry spell; you're just too hot to approach! All the boys are intimidated by you... ;)

[SuzeQuze]

I do have a crush on this guy at work. I never see him anymore though. But once in a while I do, I see him at our beer blasts which we haven't had for a while. He's cool but he's not a good person to get involved with as far as I can see, in terms of emotional issues/baggage. So I stay away. He may know I have this crush because I told this girl we work with who is friends with him. :rolleyes: Cocktails'll do it to ya! If he asked me out would I go? You betcha! :lol: But he hasn't and its probably for the better.

I have a crush on this bass player in this band I love but that isn't realistic at all. Nevertheless it is fun to swoon while he's up on stage looking all hot and such. :D

Last nite my roommate and I met a couple of underage guys who got into a club here cuz they know someone or whatever. One asks, "Where do you go to school?" :shocked: That was too funny. One of them was 21 and he was cute. But not really a crush I guess, hehe.

[all the same]

I have a crush on this bass player in this band I love but that isn't realistic at all. Nevertheless it is fun to swoon while he's up on stage looking all hot and such. :D

And his name is John McVie! RIGHT!!! :lol: :laugh: :lol: :laugh: I knew it!

[all the same]

Well that explains your dry spell; you're just too hot to approach! All the boys are intimidated by you... ;)

I look exactly like this -----> :cool: So, you be the judge! No, I have been told I'm intimidating before. I have a certain way of appearing confident, when I'm really more like this -----> :eek:

[Janet]

The lame thing about crushes is deep down you don't want anything to ever happen between you and the person you have a crush on 'cause it will kill the organism that is the crush. Crushes are like living, breathing things. They're really strange. If you watched My So-Called Life, Angela talks about her crush on Jordan like that.

So.... who else has a crush and wants to blither about it? :lol:

Oh in high school, I was the same age as Angela was in that show and I had this massive, huge, crush on a guy. I was seriously infatuated with him until a year after I graduated. Anyway, that show helped me so much with that crush...anyway.

I was crushing on a guy at work. He turned me down. I'm over it now. I am crushless now and life just seems easier that way. Boring, but so much easier. Lately any guy I crush on I don't get anyway.

[macfanken]

Haven't had a crush in a long time. It would probably be good for me to have one... a little excitement in my life! :lol:

[all the same]

Haven't had a crush in a long time. It would probably be good for me to have one... a little excitement in my life! :lol:

Ugh! Believe you me, you don't want one! They suck the life out of you. But at least they pass the time. :laugh:

[darklinensuit]

My biggest crush was when I was 12/13, though I continued to have crushes through college. These days I don't think I get crushes (other than maybe on Stevie or a couple of unreachable celebs); if I have an interest, I go for it. Otherwise not worth my energy.

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

They suck the life out of you.:

;) :lol: :lol: :lol:

- Jake

[amber]

If you can get me drunk or feed me, I'm all yours!!! :cool:
twins! :lol:
crushes are neat, but I don't like them for themselves. I also don't get them often. Like everyone has already said, crushes are like a heartbeat drives you mad. I'm too impatient to go with that sh**. I want something to happen. Now. I don't really love the crush for the crush. Maybe for a minute. But my goal is to "hit it". :laugh: The tension makes me all squirrely. And goofy. And tense. Etc.

[all the same]

twins! :lol:
crushes are neat, but I don't like them for themselves. I also don't get them often. Like everyone has already said, crushes are like a heartbeat drives you mad. I'm too impatient to go with that sh**. I want something to happen. Now. I don't really love the crush for the crush. Maybe for a minute. But my goal is to "hit it". :laugh: The tension makes me all squirrely. And goofy. And tense. Etc.

"Like a heart beat drives you mad"
"Hit it"
:lol: :laugh: :lol: :laugh: :xoxo:

[all the same]

twins! :lol:
crushes are neat, but I don't like them for themselves. I also don't get them often. Like everyone has already said, crushes are like a heartbeat drives you mad. I'm too impatient to go with that sh**. I want something to happen. Now. I don't really love the crush for the crush. Maybe for a minute. But my goal is to "hit it". :laugh: The tension makes me all squirrely. And goofy. And tense. Etc.

My problem is "the fear inside [me] makes [me] turn and run! How can some of you not like I Sing For The Things? It totally gives me a lump in my throat every time I hear it!

[amber]

"Like a heart beat drives you mad"
"Hit it"
:lol: :laugh: :lol: :laugh: :xoxo:
Dude - I finally saw Team America last night. I could not stop laughing through the whole thing. You know that speach he gives at the end, about D**** f*** p*****, but sometimes D**** f**** a******, etc???
Oh.My.God. I was going to record that and have it as a sound clip at the end of my sig... :lol: :lol: :lol: Sesly, funniest movie ever.

[amber]

My problem is "the fear inside [me] makes [me] turn and run! How can some of you not like I Sing For The Things? It totally gives me a lump in my throat every time I hear it!
:lol: :(
Me, too, I love it a lot. :nod: I'm definitely living on dreams and chains.... :p

[all the same]

:lol: :(
Me, too, I love it a lot. :nod: I'm definitely living on dreams and chains.... :p

awe... i forgot about that lyric... sigh... stevie... :o :p

[darklinensuit]

My problem is "the fear inside [me] makes [me] turn and run! How can some of you not like I Sing For The Things? It totally gives me a lump in my throat every time I hear it!

Me too, so I keep a cape nearby to catch the vomit. :D

- Jake

[all the same]

Dude - I finally saw Team America last night. I could not stop laughing through the whole thing. You know that speach he gives at the end, about D**** f*** p*****, but sometimes D**** f**** a******, etc???
Oh.My.God. I was going to record that and have it as a sound clip at the end of my sig... :lol: :lol: :lol: Sesly, funniest movie ever.

I can't remember what he said there "D**** f*** p*****". What was it? I freaking love that movie! I'm glad you finally saw it!

[all the same]

Me too, so I keep a cape nearby to catch the vomit. :D

- Jake

Do you "wear boots all summer long" to make sure you don't get barf between the toes of your sandals? :lol:

[gldstwmn]

I don't have them. Crushes, that is. :laugh:

[amber]

I can't remember what he said there "D**** f*** p*****". What was it? I freaking love that movie! I'm glad you finally saw it!
I can't remember the whole thing right now, but I almost died laughing. The songs were soooo awesome, too. Basically, the thing is a fricking masterpiece.
Omigod! I just remembered! We totally rewound the vomit part, that's the part where I really, really, really thought I was going to die from laugher. Hey, did you know that matt stone (I think, yeah) has the same birthday as Stevie? :thumbsup:

[all the same]

I can't remember the whole thing right now, but I almost died laughing. The songs were soooo awesome, too. Basically, the thing is a fricking masterpiece.
Omigod! I just remembered! We totally rewound the vomit part, that's the part where I really, really, really thought I was going to die from laugher. Hey, did you know that matt stone (I think, yeah) has the same birthday as Stevie? :thumbsup:

Oh my god! The barfing scene was hysterical! I don't think there are two minutes that go by in that movie that go without a laugh. I bought it when it came out. I should pull it out again and have a few laughs.

Yeah, totally Matt Stone (think you're right) and Stevie share a birthday! :woohoo:

[darklinensuit]

Do you "wear boots all summer long" to make sure you don't get barf between the toes of your sandals? :lol:

I don't wear sandals. (Or Reeblechs, before you go there.)
Falling puke...puke...catcher

- Jake

[littlecricket2]

*sigh*

I get crushes all the time. My current major one... Deanna knows about him! :wavey: (We went out again the other night - six weeks after the first time! Most pleasant shock of my life :) ).

But I also have lots of little crushes on guys I work with. I love it. I love the harmless flirting with some of them, I love the secret lusting about others of them...

I confess. I'm a crush slut. :o

Haha, that is cute. "crush slut." I like it. :p (BTW, I edited that post that you PM'd me about shortly after I wrote you back).

[amber]

Oh, crushes. You know who I don't have a crush on? The guy who stayed over last night. Sad. :distress:


:lol: :lol:

[darklinensuit]

Oh, crushes. You know who I don't have a crush on? The guy who stayed over last night. Sad. :distress:


:lol: :lol:

But the important thing is you still respect me. :cool:

- Jake

[Neal]

I look exactly like this -----> :cool: So, you be the judge! No, I have been told I'm intimidating before. I have a certain way of appearing confident, when I'm really more like this -----> :eek:

:laugh: I've always found blue skin to be sexy! :p

And yeah, this ---> :eek: is pretty much me too...

[sparky]

:laugh: I've always found blue skin to be sexy! :p

I THINK THAT MIGHT BE A SMURF FETISH.

[amber]

But the important thing is you still respect me. :cool:

- Jake
:lol: :lol:

[GardenStateGirlie]

I don't get crushes easily. I can honestly say that in high school, I had perhaps two crushes. Nothing major. One guy wanted to use me and made it obvious on our senior trip. The other guy was much older and though we were friends, he had a girlfriend. Thusly, I got over those crushes really fast. In college, one -- my professor wanted to set me up with another student but, he had a girlfriend and they were having "issues." No dice. It's a rarity that I ever find anyone like minded, intelligent, witty and of course, nice looking that I could even have a crush on -- or date for that matter. Thusly, my ever-present single status. I think I need to move :laugh:

[darklinensuit]

I don't get crushes easily. I can honestly say that in high school, I had perhaps two crushes. Nothing major. One guy wanted to use me and made it obvious on our senior trip. The other guy was much older and though we were friends, he had a girlfriend. Thusly, I got over those crushes really fast. In college, one -- my professor wanted to set me up with another student but, he had a girlfriend and they were having "issues." No dice. It's a rarity that I ever find anyone like minded, intelligent, witty and of course, nice looking that I could even have a crush on -- or date for that matter. Thusly, my ever-present single status. I think I need to move :laugh:

Really, you don't meet eligible guys at work? :lol:
No grandsons? :lol:

- Jake

[GardenStateGirlie]

Really, you don't meet eligible guys at work? :lol:
No grandsons? :lol:

- Jake

Please. I work at a salon. I get hit on by the 45 year old clientele and every man that I work with is gay. And do you honestly think I'd want to date anyones grandson who treats me like crud on a regular basis? I don't think so. They're more worried about their hair and nails than they are hooking up eligible grandsons.

[ontheEdgeof17]

Perfect timing for this thread!


I talked about my crush a few weeks ago on here. Well, last night I got his number and screen name. AHHH@#%#$%^&$ I'm so excited.


But here's the bad news. He told me he might be moving to Boston in a month. Dammit.

[darklinensuit]

Please. I work at a salon. I get hit on by the 45 year old clientele and every man that I work with is gay. And do you honestly think I'd want to date anyones grandson who treats me like crud on a regular basis? I don't think so. They're more worried about their hair and nails than they are hooking up eligible grandsons.

Please, I was joking.
But tell them ou're Jewish and the hooking up the grandsons will trump the hair. ;) :lol:

- Jake

[GardenStateGirlie]

Please, I was joking.
But tell them ou're Jewish and the hooking up the grandsons will trump the hair. ;) :lol:

- Jake

I know. ;)

Oh right, so then the death of the matriarch of the family (when she finds out i'm not really Jewish) will be blamed on me :laugh:

[darklinensuit]

I know. ;)

Oh right, so then the death of the matriarch of the family (when she finds out i'm not really Jewish) will be blamed on me :laugh:

And they might thank you. :p

- Jake

[DrummerDeanna]

It's a rarity that I ever find anyone like minded, intelligent, witty and of course, nice looking that I could even have a crush on -- or date for that matter. Thusly, my ever-present single status. I think I need to move :laugh:


Preach it. I seriously think there is something genetically wrong with the men of Rochester :D

[GardenStateGirlie]

And they might thank you. :p

- Jake

True enough. Maybe they'll even cut me in on the will :laugh:

[all the same]

Perfect timing for this thread!


I talked about my crush a few weeks ago on here. Well, last night I got his number and screen name. AHHH@#%#$%^&$ I'm so excited.


But here's the bad news. He told me he might be moving to Boston in a month. Dammit.

Is he into you too? Lame that he might be moving! I'm not sure how much dating you do, but for me to find some one i'm interested in (a la GardenStateGirlie) is like a miracle. And then if I found out he was moving, I'd probably barf. Actually... there is a guy who works at a bank downtown I've had my eye on for a long time. One of these days we're supposed to have drinks with a mutual friend, but he's moving to Paris in September. Time's a wastin'! I better get things moving so I can at least get some for a couple months before he leaves! :laugh:

[all the same]

I know. ;)

Oh right, so then the death of the matriarch of the family (when she finds out i'm not really Jewish) will be blamed on me :laugh:

Best not to pretend you're Jewish. The jewish people are MASSIVE grudge holders! :lol: And they'd probably shame you too! I worked for a Jewish newspaper and quit 'cause I had a better offer and GET THIS! They bought me a cake and had a little party for me which was super cute, but they also gave me a card. The two owners of the paper wrote in the card "I forgive you," as opposed to "good luck on your new venture" or something like that. CAN YOU IMAGINE???!!! Hilarious! :lol:

[ontheEdgeof17]

Is he into you too? Lame that he might be moving! I'm not sure how much dating you do, but for me to find some one i'm interested in (a la GardenStateGirlie) is like a miracle. And then if I found out he was moving, I'd probably barf. Actually... there is a guy who works at a bank downtown I've had my eye on for a long time. One of these days we're supposed to have drinks with a mutual friend, but he's moving to Paris in September. Time's a wastin'! I better get things moving so I can at least get some for a couple months before he leaves! :laugh:

I think he's into me. He came up when I was sitting by myself when my friends went to get another drink.


Well, he asked if his best friend was dating me. I said no and that we are just really good friends. He then asked for my number and suck. He's soooo freaking cute...and has my crazy style. I'm in lust. :laugh:

[all the same]

I think he's into me. He came up when I was sitting by myself when my friends went to get another drink.


Well, he asked if his best friend was dating me. I said no and that we are just really good friends. He then asked for my number and suck. He's soooo freaking cute...and has my crazy style. I'm in lust. :laugh:

How bold of him! I see a cute boy and glare at him! It's a really good strategy. Gets me tons of action! :lol: That's great for you though! I want the play by play... well, I don't need ALL the details, but you know what I mean! Good for you! :xoxo:

[ontheEdgeof17]

How bold of him! I see a cute boy and glare at him! It's a really good strategy. Gets me tons of action! :lol: That's great for you though! I want the play by play... well, I don't need ALL the details, but you know what I mean! Good for you! :xoxo:


It's a big mess, actually. I dunno if I should spill it all out on the net or not. haha

[all the same]

It's a big mess, actually. I dunno if I should spill it all out on the net or not. haha

I understand. Keep it on the down low if you have to! :nod: :cool:

[GardenStateGirlie]

One of these days we're supposed to have drinks with a mutual friend, but he's moving to Paris in September.

Does mini Stevie in your pocket love Paris in the springtime? :cool:

[all the same]

Does mini Stevie in your pocket love Paris in the springtime? :cool:

Hmmm.... good question. She only attends Stevie Nicks shows with me, but perhaps she'd be interested in, oh, I don't know APRIL IN PARIS!!!!!! :shocked: Could be somethin'! :)

[GardenStateGirlie]

Best not to pretend you're Jewish. The jewish people are MASSIVE grudge holders! :lol: And they'd probably shame you too! I worked for a Jewish newspaper and quit 'cause I had a better offer and GET THIS! They bought me a cake and had a little party for me which was super cute, but they also gave me a card. The two owners of the paper wrote in the card "I forgive you," as opposed to "good luck on your new venture" or something like that. CAN YOU IMAGINE???!!! Hilarious! :lol:

darklinensuit is Jewish :o

[GardenStateGirlie]

Hmmm.... good question. She only attends Stevie Nicks shows with me, but perhaps she'd be interested in, oh, I don't know APRIL IN PARIS!!!!!! :shocked: Could be somethin'! :)

Better make some room in your other pocket -- i'll go with :D

[macfanken]

I see a cute boy and glare at him!


You glare? Like a scary glare?? You're probably deflecting anyone who has any possible interest in you. :shocked:


I usually act oblivious if I think someone is looking at me or showing interest. Probably not a good strategy either. :distress:

[GateandGarden]

I'm not one who considers crushes annoying. I love to have the shallow, based-on-nothing-in-particular kind. I have those often enough. They distract me from real life and are particularly welcome when I'm going through something unpleasant and need an escape. It's so much better than having the heart-wrenching, everlasting kind of feelings for someone that (in my experiences) wind up causing ****loads of pain somewhere down the line. An innocent crush that isn't going anywhere and doesn't seem to want to go anywhere is heaven sent.

That being said, I have such a crush on a Ledgie right now. I don't want anything to come of it (I can't imagine dating someone from the internet) and even so, I'm sure nothing would, anyway. But damn, it's SO fun. :blob2: I have no idea what this person looks like so I've been fantasizing about that lately.

Me and my tact. We have been separated again. Can't seem to find it. :shrug:

[seeker007nmss]

That being said, I have such a crush on a Ledgie right now. :shrug:



Come on, fess up! Who are they! :shocked: OH!!! I think I know! nyah..nyah..nyah. :D

[GateandGarden]

Come on, fess up! Who are they! :shocked: OH!!! I think I know! nyah..nyah..nyah. :DReally? Some people know already, but I trust them not to talk. ;)

Who do you think it is?


Oh, it's not Krista. She's actually my girlfriend. Y'all can't tell her about this because she'll know I'm thinking about cheating. :laugh:

[amber]

Really? Some people know already, but I trust them not to talk. ;)

Who do you think it is?


Oh, it's not Krista. She's actually my girlfriend. Y'all can't tell her about this because she'll know I'm thinking about cheating. :laugh:
If this person is also a lesbian, I have a short list of good guesses. :D If they are not, well, then that really is a very harmless crush. :laugh:

[seeker007nmss]

Really? Some people know already, but I trust them not to talk. ;)

Who do you think it is?


Oh, it's not Krista. She's my girlfriend. Y'all can't tell her about this because she'll know I'm thinking about cheating. :laugh:

I am not sure I want to EXPOSE the name. shshshsh..... But I think I know... well 78.2357% sure. more like 43.567%..... Aw heck..I am just guessing! ;)

[macfanken]

That being said, I have such a crush on a Ledgie right now. I don't want anything to come of it (I can't imagine dating someone from the internet) and even so, I'm sure nothing would, anyway. But damn, it's SO fun. :blob2: I have no idea what this person looks like so I've been fantasizing about that lately.

Me and my tact. We have been separated again. Can't seem to find it. :shrug:

Oh this is WONDERFULLY scandalous!! I LOVE it! :thumbsup: We should do a thread on intra-Ledge crushes! :nod: :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

Oh this is WONDERFULLY scandalous!! I LOVE it! :thumbsup: We should do a thread on intra-Ledge crushes! :nod: :laugh:I'm glad a couple of you are enjoying my silliness! :laugh:

Sometimes I think I want to get it over with and expose it so she can be like, "What? ME? Wow, that is really flattering and very unexpected." And then we have virtual wine together while listening to the Christine Perfect album. Whoops! (Un)intentional hint there.

Really, if she winds up being flattered then it'll be a nice thing. But playing it up for all it's worth while she has no idea is really fun. :blob1:

EDIT: I miss your cat avatar. That one looks cool too, though.

[DrummerDeanna]

What - and people already know who Hillary's Ledgie crush is???

I'm always the last one to know anything :p

Spill it Hillary!!!!

[GateandGarden]

What - and people already know who Hillary's Ledgie crush is???

I'm always the last one to know anything :p

Spill it Hillary!!!!Now, if I just spill it in this thread then it ruins everything! :laugh: I have to milk this for all it's worth longer than that! :laugh:

Psst--check your PMs in a sec.

[catinthedark]

I'm always the last one to know anything :p



Line up starts behind me.

[GateandGarden]

Line up starts behind me.Hey, I thought Jason was straight for like, nearly two years! I think I need to cut in front of you. :nod:

[all the same]

Hey, I thought Jason was straight for like, nearly two years! I think I need to cut in front of you. :nod:


It's me, isn't it! And you totally want to lez out with me! :lol: Alright, let's give 'er! :p

[all the same]

darklinensuit is Jewish :o

I suppose that post was a MASSIVE racist sounding generalization. Sorry if I seemed ****y! I didn't mean to. It was just a funny story I wanted to share. :sorry: :sorry:

[all the same]

He isn't? Oh, okay.

I have a harmless celebrity crush--the best kind for me--on Ioan Gruffudd. I have ever since I saw 'Horatio Hornblower' on television, and that was back when I was pretty young. I saw 'King Arthur' in the theater and 'Century City' on television a while ago; since then I've been only more smitten.

This is totally lame, but I'm not going to let that stop me. It certainly hasn't before!

I had a dream a few nights ago, and at one point I was leaning forward to kiss Mr. Gruffudd. As I drew him closer to me and he the same, I felt my nose hit something. Then, suddenly, I realized that in my dream I had been having a silly little fantasy. My nose had hit the refrigerator. I was standing in front of the refrigerator deciding what it was that I wanted to eat. After I woke up from that, I laughed and then went to get something to eat. :o

(Good thing my parents didn't question why I wanted to see 'The Fantastic Four!' I like superheroes, but that wasn't my main reason. If only they knew...:o)

I love having sex dreams! They're the closest thing I get to sex! :lol: I had a random sex dream about I guy I went to high school with. I don't remember details, but I woke up with a big crush on him and have been kinda thinking about him since. Weird. I've never thought about him in my life!

Oh and Mr. Gruffudd is damn fine!

[GateandGarden]

He isn't? Oh, okay.Seriously, he's totally gay. At least I'm not the only one who didn't know.

I have a harmless celebrity crush--the best kind for me--on Ioan Gruffudd. I have ever since I saw 'Horatio Hornblower' on television, and that was back when I was pretty young. I saw 'King Arthur' in the theater and 'Century City' on television a while ago; since then I've been only more smitten.

This is totally lame, but I'm not going to let that stop me. It certainly hasn't before!

I had a dream a few nights ago, and at one point I was leaning forward to kiss Mr. Gruffudd. As I drew him closer to me and he the same, I felt my nose hit something. Then, suddenly, I realized that in my dream I had been having a silly little fantasy. My nose had hit the refrigerator. I was standing in front of the refrigerator deciding what it was that I wanted to eat. After I woke up from that, I laughed and then went to get something to eat. :o

(Good thing my parents didn't question why I wanted to see 'The Fantastic Four!' I like superheroes, but that wasn't my main reason. If only they knew...:o)Anyway, this is too funny. I've had something along those lines happen to me but with the pillow. The refrigerator is much funnier. :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

It's me, isn't it! And you totally want to lez out with me! :lol: Alright, let's give 'er! :pYes! You're going to cure me of my homosexuality just like that guy in the mental institution said how Stevie was going to do that for him and she was going to have his baby! :laugh:

Actually, this person's name starts with an "M". Oh, this is fun.

Really, I should probably be more secretive so as to drag it out more.

[macfanken]

Yes! You're going to cure me of my homosexuality just like that guy in the mental institution said how Stevie was going to do that for him and she was going to have his baby! :laugh:

Actually, this person's name starts with an "M". Oh, this is fun.

Really, I should probably be more secretive so as to drag it out more.

OK, NOW I know! Hehehe!

[strandinthewind]

He isn't? Oh, okay.

I have a harmless celebrity crush--the best kind for me--on Ioan Gruffudd. I have ever since I saw 'Horatio Hornblower' on television, and that was back when I was pretty young. I saw 'King Arthur' in the theater and 'Century City' on television a while ago; since then I've been only more smitten.

This is totally lame, but I'm not going to let that stop me. It certainly hasn't before!

I had a dream a few nights ago, and at one point I was leaning forward to kiss Mr. Gruffudd. As I drew him closer to me and he the same, I felt my nose hit something. Then, suddenly, I realized that in my dream I had been having a silly little fantasy. My nose had hit the refrigerator. I was standing in front of the refrigerator deciding what it was that I wanted to eat. After I woke up from that, I laughed and then went to get something to eat. :o

(Good thing my parents didn't question why I wanted to see 'The Fantastic Four!' I like superheroes, but that wasn't my main reason. If only they knew...:o)

and what was that about his penis being so large they had to slter his F4 scenes :eek: makes the crush easier though doesn't it :laugh:

[tynan88]

Yes! You're going to cure me of my homosexuality just like that guy in the mental institution said how Stevie was going to do that for him and she was going to have his baby! :laugh:

Actually, this person's name starts with an "M". Oh, this is fun.

Really, I should probably be more secretive so as to drag it out more.

Ooh Ooh the person's name starts with 'M' or the person's screen name?

[GateandGarden]

Ooh Ooh the person's name starts with 'M' or the person's screen name?Uh oh. Here I go. :laugh: Both, actually. :D

[darklinensuit]

Uh oh. Here I go. :laugh: Both, actually. :D


They don't call me marklinensuit for nuthin'. :thumbsup:

- Make

[GateandGarden]

They don't call me marklinensuit for nuthin'. :thumbsup:

- Make:lol::lol: You are too funny. :nod:

[GardenStateGirlie]

Uh oh. Here I go. :laugh: Both, actually. :D


Annnnnd I know who it is :D

[GateandGarden]

Annnnnd I know who it is :DAnd you're not spilling! Such self-control. :nod:

[GardenStateGirlie]

And you're not spilling! Such self-control. :nod:


Every once in a while I do exercise restraint from spilling :cool:

[darklinensuit]

Every once in a while I do exercise restraint from spilling :cool:

And at other times wearing Depends has been your salvation. :nod:

- Jake

[GardenStateGirlie]

And at other times wearing Depends has been your salvation. :nod:

- Jake

Well, unlike you, I've managed to grow out of my Huggies Pull-Ups :wavey:

[tynan88]

I still can't get over someone calling Jake "Darklinendiaper" before :lol:

[darklinensuit]

Well, unlike you, I've managed to grow out of my Huggies Pull-Ups :wavey:

Literally. They're still there, but you wear them thong-style. :shocked:
(Who knew they came in cheetah? ;) )

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

I still can't get over someone calling Jake "Darklinendiaper" before :lol:

I don't remember that. I get called a lot of things. :D

- Jake

[tynan88]

That's right...I was reading an old thread about other names for Stevie... :laugh:

[darklinensuit]

That's right...I was reading an old thread about other names for Stevie... :laugh:

All I remember from that is the Snelly Kuntz one. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

- Jake

[tynan88]

All I remember from that is the Snelly Kuntz one. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

- Jake

I thought Stephanie Hadaclap was good too :nod:

[seeker007nmss]

I have a harmless celebrity crush--the best kind for me--

Here is a warning story for you on Celebrity crushes. We were dead at work, and on the craps table (I work in a casino) we were discussing who we thought was cute - a babe - ...etc on TV. Well, I mentioned I thought a certain person on TV (Who shall remain nameless) was "a babe". It turns out a frined of mine knew someone who actually Knew her! So, a few weeks later (Unknown to me they did this) - I get a package in the mail with an autographed picture and a note from her. :shocked: I can only imagine what they said to her. *very embarrased* So be careful who you mention these things too.

[GateandGarden]

Here is a warning story for you on Celebrity crushes. We were dead at work, and on the craps table (I work in a casino) we were discussing who we thought was cute - a babe - ...etc on TV. Well, I mentioned I thought a certain person on TV (Who shall remain nameless) was "a babe". It turns out a frined of mine knew someone who actually Knew her! So, a few weeks later (Unknown to me they did this) - I get a package in the mail with an autographed picture and a note from her. :shocked: I can only imagine what they said to her. *very embarrased* So be careful who you mention these things too.That's great! You got an autographed pic and a note! The person was probably really flattered. You shouldn't be embarrassed, Jim. That's cool. :thumbsup:

[seeker007nmss]

That's great! You got an autographed pic and a note! The person was probably really flattered. You shouldn't be embarrassed, Jim. That's cool. :thumbsup:


Yeah, maybe when you are 12 or so. But when you are *cough* 40 it seems kinda silly.... :p "Oh Look little Jimmy has a crush on me...I will send him a photo" :laugh: She did send me her email address ...hmmmmm :shocked: :D

[GateandGarden]

Yeah, maybe when you are 12 or so. But when you are *cough* 40 it seems kinda silly.... :p "Oh Look little Jimmy has a crush on me...I will send him a photo" :laugh: She did send me her email address ...hmmmmm :shocked: :DI don't think you're ever too old for crushes. :)


I certainly hope not, anyway. I don't want to stop having them anytime soon!

[seeker007nmss]

I don't think you're ever too old for crushes. :)


I certainly hope not, anyway. I don't want to stop having them anytime soon!


I see no problem with people you know , work with ..etc. But a TV Personality? Yeah..... I have a real chance there of hooking up..... :laugh: "Gee you make more in a week than I do in 5 years....We have so much in common.....". :p

But it was nice of her to go along with the joke. Atleast she has a sense of humour.

[GateandGarden]

But it was nice of her to go along with the joke. Atleast she has a sense of humour.See, I think that's what made it cool. You both knew it was a silly thing, and I'm sure it did something for her and got you the picture and all. What would be scary is if you had thought the two of you were going to hook up. As long as it's a relatively meaningless and fun thing I think it's great.

[seeker007nmss]

See, I think that's what made it cool. You both knew it was a silly thing, and I'm sure it did something for her and got you the picture and all. What would be scary is if you had thought the two of you were going to hook up. As long as it's a relatively meaningless and fun thing I think it's great.


I guess you are right. Just was so unexpected. You kinda forget they are people too. Oh well, good for a story if nothing else. Seems kinda strange when you see them on TV though... :shocked:

[strandinthewind]

. . . Okay, phew! That makes me feel better, too. He's just all the more interesting, now . . . .

You think I am interesting - blushes -- :o :o :o

[GateandGarden]

You think I am interesting - blushes -- :o :o :oWoo hoo! Jason and Justin can be the new Brian and Curtis!!! :] :]

[ontheEdgeof17]

Woo hoo! Jason and Justin can be the new Brian and Curtis!!! :] :]



:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:


Memories....misty water colored Memories....of the way we were......the way we were.....

[catinthedark]

I don't think you're ever too old for crushes. :)


I certainly hope not, anyway. I don't want to stop having them anytime soon!

I agree! Crushes are a little luxury of life. They do nothing but add fun and excitement and silliness. :woohoo:

And I'm no young'un either! ;)

[GateandGarden]

I agree! Crushes are a little luxury of life. They do nothing but add fun and excitement and silliness. :woohoo: Amen to that! :nod:

:woohoo::woohoo::woohoo:

[GateandGarden]

If this person is also a lesbian, I have a short list of good guesses. :D If they are not, well, then that really is a very harmless crush. :laugh:Oh, I don't know why I didn't notice this earlier (or yesterday?). Anyway, I'm pretty sure this person isn't gay. It is a very harmless crush, though.

[ryan8472]

I have way too many crushes, both boys and girls, to list here. It could take up a page or two. :lol:

[NaiveMelody23]

i dont know if i have any crushes. cause everytime i like a guy they are either striaght or dont like me, so i dont really try lol

[all the same]

i dont know if i have any crushes. cause everytime i like a guy they are either striaght or dont like me, so i dont really try lol

You're lucky! My crushes are always on people who don't like me! That's what makes them so ridiculous! And I've had crushes on straight guys before. This dreamy straight boy worked at a coffee shop I used to go to. I would go CONSTANTLY. Drank a ton of coffee when he worked there. Obviously that went nowhere!

[darklinensuit]

Drank a ton of coffee when he worked there. Obviously that went nowhere!

Maybe some cranberry juice will help? ;) :lol:

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

So, if you were a 22-year-old gay chick with a little harmless crush on a 48-year-old presumably straight chick, would you just say so?[/COLOR]

:blob2: :blob2:

Yes, absolutely. And I would videotape all the hot action. And post it here, You know, for posterity. (Not that I would ever watch it myself, I'm just thinking of your needs. Yeah, your needs.)
:nod: ;) :lol:

- Jake

[all the same]

Yes, absolutely. And I would videotape all the hot action. And post it here, You know, for posterity. (Not that I would ever watch it myself, I'm just thinking of your needs. Yeah, your needs.)
:nod: ;) :lol:

- Jake
:lol: :lol: :lol:

[all the same]

Maybe some cranberry juice will help? ;) :lol:

- Jake

Ummm... if I feed a cute straight guy cranberry juice, he will fall in love with me? Good to know! :lol: :lol: I had no idea that was a viable strategy! :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

Yes, absolutely. And I would videotape all the hot action. And post it here, You know, for posterity. (Not that I would ever watch it myself, I'm just thinking of your needs. Yeah, your needs.)
:nod: ;) :lol:

- Jake:lol::lol::lol: Oh, of course. I can tell that was all about me. ;) :laugh:

[all the same]

:lol::lol::lol: Oh, of course. I can tell that was all about me. ;) :laugh:


Jake's pretty thoughful, isn't he? What a nice guy to think solely about you in this situation. :lol:

[GateandGarden]

Jake's pretty thoughful, isn't he? What a nice guy to think solely about you in this situation. :lol::lol::lol::lol:
That Jake never fails to make me laugh.

[darklinensuit]

:lol::lol::lol:
That Jake never fails to make me laugh.

But enough about my pic. ;)

- Jake

[DrummerDeanna]

LOL - um actually Hillary, do us a favor...no video taping ;) (nothing personal) hehe.

As far as crushes go - I just miss having one...blah -my life has become THAT boring lol.

[GateandGarden]

LOL - um actually Hillary, do us a favor...no video taping ;) (nothing personal) hehe.I understand! :nod: :laugh:

But for personal use? :shrug: Plus, if I ever get to be a famous singer or something like that, I can always take money from some bizarre company to release it publicly and then I can claim I *had no idea* they were going to release it. :nod: That's what all the kids are doing these days, right?

[darklinensuit]

Ummm... if I feed a cute straight guy cranberry juice, he will fall in love with me? Good to know! :lol: :lol: I had no idea that was a viable strategy! :laugh:

No, the cranberry juice can get that ton of coffee to go somewhere. :nod:

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

LOL - um actually Hillary, do us a favor...no video taping ;) (nothing personal) hehe.

WHAT is your PROBLEM? This is ART! And I support it fully. :] ;)

- Jake

[DrummerDeanna]

I understand! :nod: :laugh:

But for personal use? :shrug: Plus, if I ever get to be a famous singer or something like that, I can always take money from some bizarre company to release it publicly and then I can claim I *had no idea* they were going to release it. :nod: That's what all the kids are doing these days, right?



Oh by all means - tape away for personal use - I hadn't thought about the future benefits that could have - as stated above - whatever WAS I thinking :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

Oh by all means - tape away for personal use - I hadn't thought about the future benefits that could have - as stated above - whatever WAS I thinking :laugh:Yeah, are you insane? I don't know why more people don't do that for that exact reason! :lol::laugh:

[DrummerDeanna]

Yeah, are you insane? I don't know why more people don't do that for that exact reason! :lol::laugh:



You're right, next time I have a date (which at this point seems as likely as pigs flying out of my dog's ass) - I'll make sure to take along the video camera - you know, just in case ;) :laugh:

[GardenStateGirlie]

(which at this point seems as likely as pigs flying out of my dog's ass)

I don't know -- considering her recent health, I think it's possible :laugh:

[DrummerDeanna]

I don't know -- considering her recent health, I think it's possible :laugh:

:lol: :lol: I was actually thinking that same thing while typing what I said earlier...poor thing...that's JUST what she needs haha.

[GardenStateGirlie]

:lol: :lol: I was actually thinking that same thing while typing what I said earlier...poor thing...that's JUST what she needs haha.

It might not be what she needs but if that means you get a date, then hey :laugh:

[all the same]

No, the cranberry juice can get that ton of coffee to go somewhere. :nod:

- Jake

That's lame! Here I thought you had a miracle boy conversion tonic and all along you were talking about digestion! :lol: :lol: :lol:

[darklinensuit]

That's lame! Here I thought you had a miracle boy conversion tonic and all along you were talking about digestion! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Sorry, I prefer the role of dietician to miracle-worker pimp. :shrug: :D

- Jake

[NaiveMelody23]

So, I liked this guy once and he was striaght and I was tlaking to him and my other friend on aim, and i accidently typed in that I liked this guy SOOOO much and would do anytihng for him in his im box instead of my friends. Now that is pretty bad, and is why I have stopped crushes lol :lol:

[all the same]

So, I liked this guy once and he was striaght and I was tlaking to him and my other friend on aim, and i accidently typed in that I liked this guy SOOOO much and would do anytihng for him in his im box instead of my friends. Now that is pretty bad, and is why I have stopped crushes lol :lol:

How did the guy react? Jake recommends cranberry juice if you wanna get a straight boy to like you! He swears it works every time! :laugh:

[darklinensuit]

How did the guy react? Jake recommends cranberry juice if you wanna get a straight boy to like you! He swears it works every time! :laugh:

You word twister. :rolleyes:
At most you might construe that I said the juice will clean your crush's urinary tract. And I don't mean to sound all sappy & romantic when I say that. :shrug:

- Jake

[all the same]

You word twister. :rolleyes:
At most you might construe that I said the juice will clean your crush's urinary tract. And I don't mean to sound all sappy & romantic when I say that. :shrug:

- Jake

A clean urinary tract will just make the whole sexual experience with him all the more pleasurable! It's a two for one deal, this cranberry juice! :lol:

[darklinensuit]

A clean urinary tract will just make the whole sexual experience with him all the more pleasurable! It's a two for one deal, this cranberry juice! :lol:

Yeah, you should definitely open with that when you talk with the lucky guy. :shocked:

- Jake

[all the same]

Yeah, you should definitely open with that when you talk with the lucky guy. :shocked:

- Jake

That's how I get all the action! :lol:

[all the same]

So....

I was at the Calgary Folk Music Festival, which was ridiculously good as a side note, and guess who was there? None other than my stinking crush! I was innocently sitting alone on a park bench eating my big plate of Indian food and there he was sitting across the way from me. The thing is, I'm REALLY sick of the crush I have on him. It's totally stupid. So, I just kinda rolled my eyes and said "Oh God!" quietly to myself, finished my meal and went on my way to see more music. Turns out he was working at one of the hippie wares booths, but his booth wasn't selling stuff. I'm not sure what it was. Anyway, since I have this retarded crush on him, obviously I made a point of walking past his booth. And of course I didn't talk to him like a normal human being would do. Oh no, I walked right by pretending not to see him. I really should just be put outta my misery! :lol:

[NaiveMelody23]

:lol: You word twister. :rolleyes:
At most you might construe that I said the juice will clean your crush's urinary tract. And I don't mean to sound all sappy & romantic when I say that. :shrug:

- Jake


well, i guess next tiem when i aim him I will offer him some yummy cranbeery juice, and see what happens

[mylittledemon]

I've always had a crush on this girl name Chelly, I worked with her for about 2 years but she was dating another guy during that whole time. She is still dating him now, and I just saw her at a party with her man this past weekend. She's as hot as ever...but her boyfriend is a nice guy and I could never tell her that I'd be a great cat for her.

[all the same]

:lol:


well, i guess next tiem when i aim him I will offer him some yummy cranbeery juice, and see what happens

If anything, his pee will run clear! :D

[all the same]

So, remember the banker guy that I've had a crush on for a while that is a friend of a friend that I'm supposed to go for drinks with one of these nights? Well... I'm walking home from the gym and walk by a restaurant. He was on a date and appeared to be having a good time. Sigh... stupid not dating! :distress: I hate my life.

[macfanken]

So, remember the banker guy that I've had a crush on for a while that is a friend of a friend that I'm supposed to go for drinks with one of these nights? Well... I'm walking home from the gym and walk by a restaurant. He was on a date and appeared to be having a good time. Sigh... stupid not dating! :distress: I hate my life.

Oh SUCK!! Well, you don't know for sure that he was on an actual date, do you? Were they making out? Maybe they're just friends... or coworkers... I use to have dinner out all the time, before I turned into an anti-social loner, and it was usually just with friends, hardly ever an actual date. :shrug:

[all the same]

Oh SUCK!! Well, you don't know for sure that he was on an actual date, do you? Were they making out? Maybe they're just friends... or coworkers... I use to have dinner out all the time, before I turned into an anti-social loner, and it was usually just with friends, hardly ever an actual date. :shrug:

Yeah, it's possible he wasn't on a date. It could have been just a friend. But seriously, I'm starting to feel like some sort of desperate loser lately. I'm really god damn sick of being single. Not so much being single, but having, oh, I don't know, physical contact!!!

Why are you antisocial?

[dissention]

I'm sure I've told this story before, but the last major crush I had was awhile back and it was a woman that just started working with me. She was a dead ringer for Catherine Deneuve and I was in love with her. I mean, I salivated over the woman. I then asked her out a couple weeks after she started...and she was married. Wedding ring and everything. I felt like such a ****ing fool and I'm turning red just typing this. :laugh:

[ontheEdgeof17]

Oh SUCK!! Well, you don't know for sure that he was on an actual date, do you? Were they making out? Maybe they're just friends... or coworkers... I use to have dinner out all the time, before I turned into an anti-social loner, and it was usually just with friends, hardly ever an actual date. :shrug:


I'm an anti-social loner, too. Not much for face to face contact anymore. harhar

[all the same]

I'm an anti-social loner, too. Not much for face to face contact anymore. harhar

What about your crush though. Thought you were going on a date with him. Spill it!

[ontheEdgeof17]

What about your crush though. Thought you were going on a date with him. Spill it!


Bad kisser.

[amber]

Bad kisser.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
good decision, Curtie.

[ontheEdgeof17]

:lol: :lol: :lol:
good decision, Curtie.


Damn straight. I'm not into one-sided hotness. The guy has to deliver. :D

[all the same]

Bad kisser.

Lame! The last guy I kissed... which was so long ago, I can barely remember, was a terrible kisser. And he was trying to tell me how to kiss him! And I know I ain't no bad kisser. He was like kissing a steak! :lol:

[amber]

Damn straight. I'm not into one-sided hotness. The guy has to deliver. :D
yeah, you really need 2 sides on your hotness.

[ontheEdgeof17]

yeah, you really need 2 sides on your hotness.


I need a Stevie-lovin' bf. *sigh*

[all the same]

yeah, you really need 2 sides on your hotness.

Absolutely.

[all the same]

I need a Stevie-lovin' bf. *sigh*

Can you imagine the greatness of having a Stevie-lovin' boyfriend?!!! Someone who would actually get it! Most people go "uh-huh" when I tell them I'm into Stevie Nicks. I kinda want to kill them a little bit when they react like that. Who is more magical and all around fantastic than Stevie Nicks? NO ONE!!!!

[macfanken]

Why are you antisocial?

Hmmm.... I think it has to do with a relationship that ended a while back... sometimes it's just hard to get past that. I admit... I'm still bitter and pissed off about it. Also, my best friend moved away and I had a death in my family. I just feel like being a loner right now... I turned my cell phone off a couple weeks ago. I live in the middle of the city... I can walk outside my door and there are things to do... by lately I don't feel up to it. I'm having dinner with a friend tommorrow night and I'm going to San Francisco this weekend to hang out with my best friend and maybe see Ms. Nicks so that will help.

[GypsySorcerer]

Can you imagine the greatness of having a Stevie-lovin' boyfriend?!!! Someone who would actually get it! Most people go "uh-huh" when I tell them I'm into Stevie Nicks. I kinda want to kill them a little bit when they react like that. Who is more magical and all around fantastic than Stevie Nicks? NO ONE!!!!

I get the same reaction. My last BF couldn't stand her. I tried for five years. Futile effort. :laugh:

[macfanken]

Bad kisser.


Yeah, that's a deal breaker.

[GypsySorcerer]

. She was a dead ringer for Catherine Deneuve and I was in love with her.

Can't say I blame you. ;) She still looks amazing.

[ontheEdgeof17]

Yeah, that's a deal breaker.

Yeah. It's a bummer. Time to crawl back into hiding from the dating world.

[all the same]

Hmmm.... I think it has to do with a relationship that ended a while back... sometimes it's just hard to get past that. I admit... I'm still bitter and pissed off about it. Also, my best friend moved away and I had a death in my family. I just feel like being a loner right now... I turned my cell phone off a couple weeks ago. I live in the middle of the city... I can walk outside my door and there are things to do... by lately I don't feel up to it. I'm having dinner with a friend tommorrow night and I'm going to San Francisco this weekend to hang out with my best friend and maybe see Ms. Nicks so that will help.

If I lived in Seattle, I'd make you a cup of tea. I hope you're okay. :xoxo:

[all the same]

Yeah. It's a bummer. Time to crawl back into hiding from the dating world.

Beh! Stupid dating! :mad:

[ontheEdgeof17]

Beh! Stupid dating! :mad:


hahaha

I always have an eye out during Stevie shows. :o

[amber]

hahaha

I always have an eye out during Stevie shows. :o
me too. But hot guys like guys with two eyes.

[dissention]

Can't say I blame you. ;) She still looks amazing.

I oogle at Marissa's avatar. :laugh: She is such a stunning woman, it's unreal. Her and Julie Christie are ageless.

This woman was nice, but my gawd, I couldn't look at her for ages. That's how mortified I was.

[macfanken]

If I lived in Seattle, I'd make you a cup of tea. I hope you're okay. :xoxo:


Thanks. :)

[all the same]

hahaha

I always have an eye out during Stevie shows. :o

I'm way too focused on my queen to see anyone else in the room. During a Stevie show, i see no one!

[ontheEdgeof17]

I'm way too focused on my queen to see anyone else in the room. During a Stevie show, i see no one!


That's why you go to the venue and hang out before the show.

[all the same]

I oogle at Marissa's avatar. :laugh: She is such a stunning woman, it's unreal. Her and Julie Christie are ageless.

This woman was nice, but my gawd, I couldn't look at her for ages. That's how mortified I was.

Easy mistake though. Finding someone you're truly attracted to is so rare, at least for me. You were just caught up in her and didn't realize she was married. That must have been a mighty lame experience! :( :xoxo:

[amber]

That's why you go to the venue and hang out before the show.
total-eh.
............

[all the same]

That's why you go to the venue and hang out before the show.

I'll file that away in the memory banks... When am I gonna see her next though! Damn this living in Canada! It cramps travel plans big time!

[dissention]

Easy mistake though. Finding someone you're truly attracted to is so rare, at least for me. You were just caught up in her and didn't realize she was married. That must have been a mighty lame experience! :( :xoxo:

Yeah, but you'd think that after a couple weeks of working with her I would have noticed her wedding ring or the picture of her husband on her desk (who, might I add, is ass). :laugh: She was shocked when I asked her and I just about pissed myself. Those are the moments in life when you need Depends.

[all the same]

total-eh.
............

That's so Cartman! Awesome! "I hate you guys!" :lol:

[all the same]

Yeah, but you'd think that after a couple weeks of working with her I would have noticed her wedding ring or the picture of her husband on her desk. :laugh: She was shocked when I asked her and I just about pissed myself. Those are the moments in life when you need Depends.

HAH! Incontinence is never pretty. It can really ruin a mood!

[amber]

That's so Cartman! Awesome! "I hate you guys!" :lol:
heyh.
so, i just realized, someone has a crush on me right now. That's way, way, way better. Score.
I mean, I knew he did, but I wasn't thinking about it as someone has a crush on me, before. They feel how I do when I have a crush. Pretty awesome. Yerp.

[ontheEdgeof17]

heyh.
so, i just realized, someone has a crush on me right now. That's way, way, way better. Score. I mean, I knew he did, but I wasn't thinking about it as someone has a crush on me, before. They feel how I do when I have a crush. Pretty awesome. Yerp.


Oops. I didnt mean to hit the 'send' button. Now, I'm embarassed. :o

[amber]

Oops. I didnt mean to hit the 'send' button. Now, I'm embarassed. :o
:lol: :laugh:
Shmurtie....

[all the same]

heyh.
so, i just realized, someone has a crush on me right now. That's way, way, way better. Score.
I mean, I knew he did, but I wasn't thinking about it as someone has a crush on me, before. They feel how I do when I have a crush. Pretty awesome. Yerp.

Are you into him? :shrug:

[amber]

Are you into him? :shrug:
Not that much, but it was fun, and he suggested camping. As we all know, I'm a camping whore without a car. Actually, though, there's an extenuating circumstance that makes me not as into it as I would be otherwise, because it was fun and good and stuff. It's probably one of those things where you do it one more time, or maybe take a short camping trip together, then randomly hook up when you go to town again (he lives in another town). Anyways. So, yes and no. :D In a way I'm into it, and in another way I'm not. So, like I said, a few more times. ;) Okay, plus, it's hard not to be into someone when they are so into you, and so enthusiastic. Like "I have to see you again!", you know? But not stalker-ey, just stoked. :)

[all the same]

Not that much, but it was fun, and he suggested camping. As we all know, I'm a camping whore without a car. Actually, though, there's an extenuating circumstance that makes me not as into it as I would be otherwise, because it was fun and good and stuff. It's probably one of those things where you do it one more time, or maybe take a short camping trip together, then randomly hook up when you go to town again (he lives in another town). Anyways. So, yes and no. :D In a way I'm into it, and in another way I'm not. So, like I said, a few more times. ;)

Just don't screw on an ant hill while you're camping! You'd be singing "What we've been through! All of the trauma!" in no time! :lol:

Too bad he lives in another town. Amber needs some action! Well, I do too. Probably a little more than you. You get some from time to time! :lol:

[amber]

Just don't screw on an ant hill while you're camping! You'd be singing "What we've been through! All of the trauma!" in no time! :lol:

Too bad he lives in another town. Amber needs some action! Well, I do too. Probably a little more than you. You get some from time to time! :lol:
Yeah, I guess now I have two people who live in different towns with standing appts. These summer months have produced a bounty for me. July was great.
I'm proud to say I have been seedy and indulgent. And languid. And debauched. Okay, sorry, carried away. But that's the point of summer. :woohoo:
:wavey:

[desertangel]

Another Mongo-Thread... :thumbsup:


Current Crush = My Stockbroker. He's Hawt. I think he tried to invite himself along for drinks @ LBK after my last investment. I hope it stays a crush because I've decided I like the crush organism better. Here's why....

My Last Crush = My friend's friend. Why? Because his brother is a famous actor and that was a huge turn on for me. (Edit: it did go past the crush stage.) Sadly, it was a real downer. I won't elaborate. :distress: :laugh:

Laura

[all the same]

Another Mongo-Thread... :thumbsup:


My Last Crush = My friend's friend. Why? Because his brother is a famous actor and that was a huge turn on for me. (Edit: it did go past the crush stage.) Sadly, it was a real downer. I won't elaborate. :distress: :laugh:

Laura


Errrr... which famous actor?

[all the same]

"Maybe I am calmer now. Maybe things are fine. Maybe I made the whole thing up. Maybe it isn't a lie!"

Yeah, I've simmered. Way less "whaaaa... I'm all alone. Whaaaaa... I'm inconsolable!" today.

[GateandGarden]

Errrr... which famous actor?Yeah, I'm totally wondering now, too! :cool:

[all the same]

Yeah, I'm totally wondering now, too! :cool:


I had to ask! :D

[desertangel]

Errrr... which famous actor?


Matthew Modine. :cool:

[desertangel]

Okay, plus, it's hard not to be into someone when they are so into you, and so enthusiastic. Like "I have to see you again!", you know? But not stalker-ey, just stoked. :)

That is unless the person who is into you is a total dweeb, loser-type and not very handsome or cute... then it's REALLY easy to not be into them. Unfortunately, I've had a couple of those kind turn into obsessed stalkers and it's NOT FUN!! :eek:

Laura