Romantic or No?

[lagringader&r]

Since I never sleep :rolleyes: , I've spent my early morning hours making up some questions about love and relationships I thought would be fun to post. I'm too tired now to answer my own, but I'd love to see what everyone else has to say. Have fun.

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
10) Would you ever marry for money?
11) Would you die for the person you love?
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
13) How many times have you been in love?
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

:xoxo:

[tynan88]

Oooh this is a good one!

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One Year in love
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?Intelligent, Headstrong, Funny, BRUNETTE! I have come very close to her :distress:
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?Better to have loved than lost
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?7, it isn't vital but it is a commitment between two people
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?No
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?No
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?I want the six months
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1. Trust
2. Communication
3.Sex
4.Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? Yes
11) Would you die for the person you love?Yes
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?Faithful
13) How many times have you been in love?Once
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?It depends if you meet the right person
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?Trust
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?Lies
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?No
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?I believe in destiny
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?One, No, No

[jannieC]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really, maybe lust at first sight.
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One year of passion.
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Funny, honest, intelligent- my husband is all of these things, fortunately.
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Loved and lost, absolutely. Playing it safe means you never take chances.
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6, I guess. Quality, not frequency.
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Nope.
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Married, no way. In a relationship, maybe. But I'm not the kind to "go for it" in situations like that, so I'd probably lose out.
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Hm. I'd probably go for it and try to give him the best 6 months I could.
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1. Trust 2. Communication 3. Sex 4. Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? Not marry, no. But looking back, maybe I would have dated some guys with money just to see what it felt like.
11) Would you die for the person you love? I don't know that I'd die for my husband, but I would for my step-son.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? 100% faithful.
13) How many times have you been in love? Two times.
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I have no idea, but I believe it can be several. Some people are much more capable of feeling love than others.
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes.
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Honesty and trust.
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Lying (see a theme here?.
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? I don't know that it's <i>necessary</i>, but I do think it's imporant to let the other person know how you feel, frequently. It's nice to feel loved.
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I used to believe in soul mates, now I'm not so sure. I think that there is a major "plan" and that we are destined to have certain people in our lives for different reasons.
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I don't really believe in soulmates, so I can't answer this one.

[Dreammms]

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?


my friend shelia was dating a guy mike for 7 yrs and they got engaged and had a big wedding. the night of the honeymoon mike told shelia he couldnt do this and didnt want to be married. she was heartbroken and the marriage got annulled. all the guest felt bad for her so they let her keep the gifts and she bought a new car.

anyway a couple yrs pass and shelia meets james. they fall in love and he treats her great. a couple months pass and he ends up getting really sick. turns out he has cancer all through his body. shelia sticks by him and helps take care of him while he is sick. they end up getting married in central park in new york. the drs give him three weeks to live. he was in bad pain and a hospice nurse stayed at the house with him and shelia. one morning he wouldnt wake up and shelia was so scared. his blood pressure was low. the hospice nurse said this was the first stages of dying. his family and friends came to the house to sit by his bedside. the next morning at 4:30 am he woke up for two hours and told shelia how much he loved her and how he is sorry he wasn't awake for the "party." he ended up dying that afternoon..which was tuesday of this week. shelia loves him very much and wouldn't trade the yr she had with him for nothing.

[ShangriLaTroubl]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Attraction yes, love no

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?
one year of love

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
A woman who has a sense of humor, a democrat (jk doesnt have to be), Stevie fan, beautiful, can sing, can write lyrics...wow dreaming right?

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

I believe that philosophy

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

6, and both are important in different ways

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
Yes

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
Go for it

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
tough one, i say go for it

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
Trust, communication, sex, wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money?
No
11) Would you die for the person you love?
Yes
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
I could be faithful
13) How many times have you been in love?
once i think
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
unlimited amounts
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
Yes, possible, not a good idea tho!
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
Stevie fandom!
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
friendship with ex's
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
Yes
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
luck
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?
Soul mate, dont like to use that term--but I get the point...I think that they only have one SOUL MATE..some never find that person, some lose that person, some stay with them forever--I havent found mine

[GateandGarden]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? not at all

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? neither

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? understanding, kind, honest but considerate and tactful with words at the same time, open-minded, knows herself well...I don't really think I've found this person. Either that or she was taken.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? I think it's better to have loved and lost than to hav never experienced it on any level because of fear.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? I don't know--5? Less than 5? Maybe I'll change my mind later. The quality is more important than the quantity in my opinion.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Hundreds.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? I can see myself waiting around hoping that the person will eventually come to me, and I would probably let that person know the extent of my feelings, but I wouldn't ruin my life over it and rule out possibilities of other relationships

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?This is tough for me, maybe more so than for others. Danielle's story there is inspiring, but it's one of those things in life I imagine I would not be able to handle. I've also seen from past experiences that it takes me at least a year to decide I'm truly in love with someone, so at that point, the person destiny dealt to me may have already passed. :shrug:

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1 Trust, 2 Communication, 3 Wealth, 4 Sex

10) Would you ever marry for money? no

11) Would you die for the person you love? I just haven't gotten far enough in life to make a decision about this one. Plus, I never have actually been in a real relationship.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? I am extremely loyal.

13) How many times have you been in love? once

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I'm not sure, but certainly more than once.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? I suppose it's possible.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? It's a tie between trust and affection.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Lying about significant things and hiding things really bothers me.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? Not on a daily basis necesarily but very often.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I believe that we all have several soulmates.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I can't say how many we have, and I don't believe I've found mine, but I feel confident enough that I will.

[Dreammms]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? no. lust? yes.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?this is a hard question. i wouldn't want to go my life without a mate so i guess i would have to go with 50 yrs in a good relationship.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?sweet,sensitvie, loving,funny,etc. yes, i have come close to finding him.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?it's better to loved and lost

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 7 both

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?yes

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?if the person was married i wouldn't go for it

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?go for it

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.trust,communication,sex,wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? noooo

11) Would you die for the person you love?YES

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?faithful

13) How many times have you been in love?2 times

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?there is no limit

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? YES

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?Stevie Nicks :D

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?being treated like **** or being cheated on

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?yes

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?i believe in desitny

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?i think you can have more than one soulmate. i did find mine...

[WildInTheWind]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? I never did until I met my current bf 4 months ago...I do now!
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? I'd go for the 50 years
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? I already found him. He can play a bitchin guitar solo with his teeth. Need I say more? :thumbsup:
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Not too sure. I'll go with loved and lost
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? no
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? I think I'd have to go for it.
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? I think I'd aviod it
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Trust. Communication. Sex. Wealth.
10) Would you ever marry for money? maybe if it was ALOT of money!
11) Would you die for the person you love? split desision. I have a child so I have to put her first no matter what. I'd die for her, but that's about it.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? faithful...I've never cheated
13) How many times have you been in love? 2 times
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? As many times as it takes
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? I don't know....I'd say no though
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? trust, someone who can love my daughter like his own and good taste in music! wait, that is three things...
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? lying
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? not really
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? not sure after this one I've got now! I always said luck of the draw....maybe not though!
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I think I have

[wondergirl9847]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

Newp. How can you be in love with someone you don't know? :shrug: What if they are a murderer, rapist, dog hater?! :mad:

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

Well, since most people I know are in decent relationships with little passion...LOL Sesly though, this is a toughie. That year would be AMAZING, and you'd have those memories for a lifetime. Those 50 years would be good, but there might not be any great memories. I'd go with the year, I guess.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Wow. My ideal mate would be someone I could trust. I would be able to tell him anything and know he wouldn't share it with anyone else. Trust is a very sensitive issue with me. Kind, generous, sweet, smart....all important qualities. He would be a great listener, love to travel and of course, love music. If he doesn't like FM, Lindsey, Keith...etc...he most certainly will learn to. :laugh:

I knew someone who I was thisclose to telling how I felt about them, but they are now married to their "soulmate". I thought he was the most awesome person I'd ever met.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

I've never been in love, so I wouldn't know. I have lost people I've loved, to death (my grandfathers, my uncle and my dog, Candy.), and I would never wish I had never gotten to know and love them. They were important in my life and I would never wanna change that.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

I'm a virgin, so I can't answer that. LOL!!

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Yes, for a friend I really cared about.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

Move on. NOBODY is worth the heartache to that family, especially if they have children. If he's in a relationship, don't worry about it, if it truly is destiny, they'll break up and you'll be together forever. ;)

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

GO FOR IT! You'll remember those 6 months for the rest of your life. Pain is part of life...loss is part of life. We all have to go sometime. Anyway, the doctors told my uncle he had a few months to live....that was about 4 years ago and he's still here, so whatevah.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

1. Trust
2. Communication (Without communication, the sex will suffer)
3. Sex (I can imagine it would be awesome with someone I truly love.)
4. Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money?

No way.

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Of course. That's the ultimate sacrifice.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

If I had someone, I would most def be faithful.

13) How many times have you been in love?

Zero. :laugh:

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

You can love as many people as you want. That whole "soulmate" thing is a crock. There are a bazillion people in the world, you think only ONE is compatible with you? You are mistaken.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Sure. It's possible and probable...check my answer to #14. You have to make choices in life...it's tough and sucks sometimes, but that's life.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Faithfulness. I would not stay with a cheater.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Cheating. Of course, if someone beat me up, I would kick their a$$ back if I could and leave. LOL My aunt has stayed with a dumba$$ abusive husband for over 20 years and that's INSANE. You lay one finger on me and I'll try to snap it off. :mad: I know how to use a gun, beyotch. LOL

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

No. You can show people you love them by doing various things. I'm not a lovey-dovey-huggy-mushy person. I do tell people I love them, just not every day. They know.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

I believe in destiny, but not soulmates.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?


Obviously, I am not on the soulmate train. LOL I have not found the love of my life yet. I'm not sure if I ever will and I'm not even sure I'm meant to be with anyone...ever.

[estranged4life]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

No to love, Yes to attraction

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

As the Queen song goes "Just one year of love..."

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Deb, Need I say more?

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

I would loved & lost than play it safe...One thing about my personality is that I go balls out on everything.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

I say a 7, I prefer understanding more than anything.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Nope.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

Move on.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

Yes, I say go for it.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

Communication, Trust, Sex, Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money?

No.

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Yes.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

Faithful...Unless Stevie and/or Rita are available :lol:

13) How many times have you been in love?

Twice

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

Couldnt tell ya...

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Yes, It could be possible

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Ability to say what is on my mind...No matter how brutal the words are.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Unfaithfulness

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

No, I dont have to say it to Deb everyday nor does she have to say it to me.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

I believe everything is destined, And I do believe in soul mates.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

Couldnt say how many one person can have. It might shock people but Deb & myself are not soulmates, More opposites than anything...But as they say opposites attract.

[ontheEdgeof17]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Lust at first sight...never love

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? 1 year of love

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? funny....smart...has goals....trustworthy I have, but I left him slip away. I wasn't ready for a LTR.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? I never play it safe. You only live once.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? yeah :cool:

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Go for it! I take risks.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Toughie. I'd say go for it. They could fight through the disease and win the battle. There's always hope.


9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. Communication, Trust, Wealth, Sex


10) Would you ever marry for money? no

11) Would you die for the person you love? yes

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? right now, I stray. I'm too young for a major relationship

13) How many times have you been in love? once

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? You can love a lot, but only one is meant for you.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? yes. very possible

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? My love for Stevie Nicks music.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? lying

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? absolutely

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? eh, I dunno. A little of both. You have to be in the right place at the right time for it to happen.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? One. I found him and let him go....:sigh: I'm sure I will find another that was meant to be.

[GypsySorcerer]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Infatuation/lust, yes; love, no

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life(or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? Neither

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Intelligent, open-minded, generous with others, compassionate. Yes, but circumstances got in the way.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Love and lose

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 7, with quality most important

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Yup
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Already been in that situation and I don't know what I'd do if I wound up in that situation again.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Don't know

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1-Trust
2-Communication
3-Sex
4-Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? No

11) Would you die for the person you love? I don't know

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful

13) How many times have you been in love? Once

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? several

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Individuality

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Someone trying to exert too much control over me

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? Destiny

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I think we have several soulmates in life, including platonic ones.

[GardenStateGirlie]

Gosh, i'm uncharacteristically optimistic today :laugh:

Do you believe in love at first sight? I think it's possible...in this life, anything is possible.

If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? Absolutely 1 year.

Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Intelligent/Wordly, Honest, Caring, Witty, Sarcastic, Funny. Ahh...we shall see.

Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? What good is living if you're not up for taking chances?

On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6.

Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? More for myself than someone else.

Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? You move on. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Go for it.

Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. Trust, Communication, Sex, Wealth.

Would you ever marry for money? Supposedly, it's the thing to do but no thanks.

Would you die for the person you love? Yes.

Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful.

How many times have you been in love? Smitten? Many. Love? Zero.

How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I think it depends on the person.

Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Not really sure.

What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Trust.

What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Cheating.

Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? Not necessarily daily but I think it's good to remind someone.

Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? Call me a hopeless romantic but I think there's a reason you meet certain people. I think it's a bit of destiny mixed with good timing.

How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? Again, depends on the person. Not sure but I think I will If I haven't already encountered him at some point.

[sparky]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

Love, no. Lust, yup.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

I'll take the 50. I've got a great imagination.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Readers Digest condensed version : Smart, Funny, Hunky, Grounded, Focused, Driven, Calm, Strong, Honest, Confident, Dark Haired and Eyed, and under 6' tall :) If I put together the best of two former boyfriends...pretty close.


4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

Better to have loved and lost. But not just for a friggin year !


5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

9. Mind-shattering and often. My libido is a problem. :laugh:

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Many.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

I thought we already DID that. Have fun, tell the world ! NEVER AGAIN.


8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

Gimme the 6 months. As long I get another shot at someone else.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

Trust. Sex. Communication. Wealth.


10) Would you ever marry for money?

Not now. But if I didn't have any...who knows ?

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Sure.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

That all depends...

13) How many times have you been in love?

Tricky question. Depends on the definition. 4 or 5 times, I guess.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

An infinite number.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Unfortunately, yes !

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Trust.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Unreliability.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

Nope. In fact, It can get annoying.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

Random.


20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

I think soul mate is a strange and potentially damaging phrase. Having said that...it depends on the person and the life they live how many potential partners they can have. I've had a few that could make for a steamy and entertaining box set of miniseries. I suspect there are a few more corkers where they came from....:woohoo:


Fun Quiz !

[bretonbanquet]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really.
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One Year of love.
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Stable, intelligent, someone with real awareness. And not blonde. Never even been close to finding her :(
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Better to have loved and lost.
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? No.
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? No
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? I'll take the 6 months.
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Trust. Sex. Wealth.
1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Sex
4. Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? No.
11) Would you die for the person you love? Hard to say.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Totally faithful.
13) How many times have you been in love? Never.
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? No idea.
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? No.
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Trust.
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Lack of trust.
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No, I don't think I could stand that.
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? Random.
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? One (that's the whole point), No, No - not sure at all...

[CelticGypsy]

Dreammms, that was a lovely story. Thanks for sharing it :)


1) Do you believe in love at first sight? No, I think it is lust or natural attraction for that person in the beginning. Love takes time. It happens once you know all the good/bad things about that person and still want to be with them :xoxo:

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? I would choose 1 year of being in love with the person I always wanted.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
He is tall, has blonde hair (ok, he use to), very intelligent, funny, kind, loving, generous, thoughtful, hard worker, good father, good provider, lover, ect.....I married him :xoxo:

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? It is better to have loved.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? Probably a 5. Quality is more important. When you get older, it won't matter that much :xoxo:

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Yes.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? I could never, never ruin someone's relationship or marriage. I would definitely move on and find someone for myself.


8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? I would want to spend 6 months with someone that I truely loved and cared for.


9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1. Communication, if you have this, you will have the others :)
2. Trust
3. Sex
4. Wealth


10) Would you ever marry for money? I have dated people who had money. They were boring and snobs. I married a guy that had nothing when we first met. He turned out to be more fun and more adventurous than the rich guys :xoxo:


11) Would you die for the person you love? Yes.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Always faithful.

13) How many times have you been in love? A few times but I married the love of my life.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? Maybe three times.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Possible and it can happen :) especially when you are engaged. haha

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Communication and trust :nod:

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? I cannot stand dishonest people.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? It is not necessary. Actions speak louder than words in a relationship.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I believe in fate or destiny and it does happen.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

I think a friend/parent/child can be a soulmate. When it comes to lovers/spouses I really don't think it happens that much. I need someone that agrees with me on important issues like how we raise our children or want similar goals as a family but if he thought like me and agreed with me all the time, I would be totally bored with him. Who wants to marry someone like themselves :shrug: I have been married for almost 26 yrs and I am glad I married someone totally different from me but always put me first in his life and vice versa :)

[Violet]

Okay, I'll jump in on this one....

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

I'm a hopeless romantic, so I have to say yes

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

Well, I'm pretty much right in the middle of option 2. We've been together for 22 years, married for 17. Started out as friends, and we have a great relationship, but he's not the most romantic/passionate person in the world. Sometimes I do feel sorry for myself that there's not more romance in my life, but we still have a pretty good marriage.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Blonde, blue eyes, funny, kind, loves kids, romantic (see a trend here? :o )

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

The first one.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

Oh gees... for me, I'd say 4. My husband would definitely say 10. I go for quality; he goes for frequency.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

No. I'm not that creative. :(

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

Proceed with caution, because chances are you'll be the one to get hurt..

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

go for it

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

Trust, Communication, Wealth, Trust

10) Would you ever marry for money?

No.

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Before I became a mom, I'd have said yes. Now I'd say I'd only die for my daughter. She needs me too much to say I'd die for my husband.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

Very faithful

13) How many times have you been in love?

two

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

Don't know.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Yes.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Trust

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Lying

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

Yes. Even though he's not romantic, this is how we end every single day. :)

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

I do believe in soul mates and destiny.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

Probably more than one. Yes, I found mine, even if he is a jackass sometimes! :eek:

Carol

[Johnny Stew]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?
Hmm. I believe you can be smitten with someone "at first sight." Certainly in lust "at first sight." But for me, at least, love only comes once a solid foundation is built.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?
I'd most definitely choose just one year of being with my ideal mate, over 50 years of "second best."
I've spent large spans of my adult life, single. I can do it and do it well... it's not a problem. So I see no reason to settle.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
Oh, gosh. Intelligent, down-to-Earth, funny, even-tempered, generous, discerning, faithful, moralled, healthy sex-drive(!), attractive, passionate, creative.... and so much more.
And, yes, I have. :D

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?
It's most definitely "better to have loved and lost." Anything worth having, is worth the risk of being hurt.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
That's a really tough question to answer. I have an, I'm told, very high sex drive (must be the Italian in me :laugh: )... yet, if I found someone who matched every other aspect I was looking for in a perfect mate, but was, say, impotent... well, there are always other things two people can do sexually (or that one person can do). :o
So I guess I'll rate it a 6 on the scale of importance, with quality certainly being more important than quantity.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
Oh, yes.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
I'm majorly against infidelity. Not as a judgement on other people and their relationships, just as something I won't do or tolerate in my own relationships.
So I'd move on.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
I'd go for it. Without a doubt.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
Trust, Communication, Sex, Wealth.

10) Would you ever marry for money?
No way.

11) Would you die for the person you love?
Of course.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
I'm faithful to a fault. But I see that as a good thing.

13) How many times have you been in love?
I'd say I've been in "truly, madly, deeply, wanna spend the rest of my life with this guy"-love, three times. Including my current relationship.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
I think we have the capacity to be in love many times.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
Possible, certainly. But the probability depends on one's personality. Some people can be in love with more than one person at a time, others can only be in love with one person.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
Trust.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
Infidelity. Cheat on me, and you're out the door, bub... no "ifs," "ands" or "buts."

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
No. The words are nice to hear, but they aren't important... actions are. Show me you love me by treating me the way I deserve to be treated... that's all I need.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
I most definitely believe in destiny and in soulmates. My faith in that has been tested a couple of times, but it comes back again.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?
I used to believe that we had one soulmate, and that was that. But experience has shown me that that's simply not true.
"So long ago, I was an innocent... it had nothing to do with age."

Interesting poll!

[lagringader&r]

I love reading these! There are some really nice people on this board. I'll answer them now (I'm not so nice). :laugh:


1) Do you believe in love at first sight? I didn't use to, but I met someone who I haven't been able to stop thinking about since. I never had the nerve to tell him what I was feeling and at the time, I was with someone else. Now, he's with someone else but I always wonder if I fell in love with him? :shrug:
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? The 1 year. I can't stand being alone, but the idea of the 1 indescribable year wins out.
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Someone who is gentle, manly but not afraid to cry and show his feminine side, funny but not a comedian all the time, serious when it's the right time, a good communicator, not judgmental, a good lover (or at least can satisfy me because I'm a walking nerve-ending :shocked: ), drug-free, likes FM and metal and will go to concerts with me not only willingly but with bells on, someone who has his own life and will let me have mine but when we get together, it's fireworks. :nod: I haven't found him and I'm not sure I've ever been close.
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Loved and lost
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 9 1/2 :laugh: I'm shallow and like a guy in that way. Quality over frequency, but both.
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Not yet, but someday.. I'm not a good writer.
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Married? Probably not. In a relationship? Maybe. Would depend on how serious his relationship was.
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Go for it
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1) Communication 2) Trust 3) Sex 4) Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? I doubt it but if we had other things that made it good, maybe.
11) Would you die for the person you love? Yes
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? I've cheated, but there were circumstances.. I want to think I could be faithful. I'm not sure.
13) How many times have you been in love? Once
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? Different degrees of love, maybe several.
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Communication
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Physical or emotional abuse
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No, and it's annoying. If it's said too much, it loses meaning.
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I'm not sure and I still question that. Seems like luck of the draw, but I love the idea of soul mates.
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? If there is such a thing, one. No, haven't found mine. Doubt I will, but can always hope. :xoxo:

[mondaymornin1]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? 1 year with my true love

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?Great sense of humor, not lazy, loyal, has his own interests and lets me have mine, great father, thoughtful, likes animals, protective (not in a jealous way), and great between the sheets. And yes, I found him.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Better to have loved and lost

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 7 or 8. Pretty important to match here if you're talking the rest of your life, anyway!

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? I've written a poem, but the guy was soooo undeserving.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?If he's married, I move on. If not, I go for it.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Tough one. I'd probably go for it, though

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1. Trust 2. Communication 3. Sex 4. Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? No, and I damn sure didn't! :laugh:

11) Would you die for the person you love? Yes

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful lover

13) How many times have you been in love? Twice

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? Depends on the circumstances. But I think numerous times.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes, though it's never happened to me, so what do I know?

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Trust
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Someone being unfaithful

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? Only if there's meaning behind it, not just something to say.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I believe in destiny.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? One. I found mine.

[dudden22]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? No

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One year in love

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Intelligent, Open Minded, Grounded yet spontaneous

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? better to have loved and lost

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 9, both

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?Yes

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? It would depend on a number of circumstance. Are they unhappily married and looking to move on? I would not have sex with them until they were out of the relationship though.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Go for it.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.Communication, Sex, Trust, Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? No

11) Would you die for the person you love?Yes

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful

13) How many times have you been in love?1

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? Infinite

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?Communication

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?Lying

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No, it becomes routine and loses it's meaning

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?Luck of the draw.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? I don't believe in soul mates

[Serrart]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Even if it's extremely rare I think it exists

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One Year. To compromise on feelings it's like to renounce to live, IMO.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
Intelligent, witty, self-ironic, down to earth, kind with other people, with a lot of interests, respectful, good father, passionate, sensitive, loyal, able to act according to his principles. Have I found him? I hope so.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Better to have loved and lost


5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
I'd say 7, the frequency is linked to many aspects, quality is more important

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
I wrote something else... yes.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
I would immediately move on.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
I'd go for it.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
Communication, Trust, Sex, Wealth.

10) Would you ever marry for money?
No.

11) Would you die for the person you love?
That's something only life can tell.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
I'm faithful if there are true feeling involved.

13) How many times have you been in love?
One.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
There isn't a limit, I think.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
I think we love at the same many things in many people consciously or inconsciously. It's possible to love two people at the same time, but who can't take a decision, usually is just blocked by fear of egoism, IMO.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
Honesty in the feelings

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
Forget respect towards himself, me, or others he loves

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
No.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
A bit of both.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?
Soulmates change as we change.

Romy

[xdreamsunwindx]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

No. Lust? Sure. Love? Hell no.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

1 year in love. I don't want a relationship without passion. It has to have spark.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Funny, trustworthy, creative, strong, loves music and cats. Never found anyone like it yet.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

“it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

7, but like.. the feeling of love has to be mutual, you know?

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Yeah, I have. But they were more for me than anyone else.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

I'd go for it. If the feeling of true love is mutual, I don't want to let it slip away, you know?

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

I'd stay for the 6 months. I'd rather have memories to cherish than regret passing them up.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

1) Trust
2) Communication
3) Sex
4) Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money?

**** no.

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Deffinitely.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

If I'm loyal to anyone, it's to those I love.

13) How many times have you been in love?

I've been like.. smitten, or attracted to someone, but I've never been in love. It hasn't happened yet.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

Rarely. I think that once you find that someone, no other relationship will live up to it.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Eeeh possibly.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

I HAVE to have independence. I won't let anyone control me.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Egoism. And control freaks.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

Not necessarily. I mean, if two people really love eachother, they should know it already.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

Luck of the draw.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

There's only one perfect person out there for everyone. You just gotta luck out and find them. I don't know if I'll ever find mine. I guess it will happen. I just want to find a nice boy who plays bass and I'll be happy. ^_^

[amber]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?
Almost.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?
One year.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
Yes. His name is Chris. Describe? Well, he was just generally one of those perfect people. I didn't see one thing I didn't like about him, ever.


4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?
Loved and lost. I think it's pretty ridiculous to think that anyone has ever been able to "play it safe". How can you avoid loving someone?

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
10. Frequency is quality!!! :laugh:


6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
Oh, hell no!!! Gack! Clearly, I never will, either.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
I move on and wait for the divorce. ;)

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
Well, I might as well date them, cause according you your question I have already met them, so I would be sad anyway if they died. I'd just like to say that your version of destiny is really a pain in the ass! :laugh:

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1.Sex 2.Trust 3.Communication 4.Wealth


10) Would you ever marry for money?
I guess not. *sigh*. It sure would be awesome, though!

11) Would you die for the person you love?
I don't really know.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
Well...faithful, I guess. I've strayed once, but it wasn't the best plan ever.

13) How many times have you been in love?
4

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
Many.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
I think it's possible for some people, but for myself, I will always like one better. Even if I love both of them.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
Sex

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
mmm. Cheating? Excessive flirting while I am in the room?

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
It may not be necessary totally, but I think it's a really good idea. I like it.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
Random, in the sense that anyone can be destined for you, depending on what you need to learn or what you want at that time.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?
I'm not really sure. It seems like you could have many soul mates, but that they might be friends, or whatever. And what does soul mate mean? I felt I found mine, but we're not together, so does that mean we weren't really soul mates? Anyway, that question is pretty complex.
I'm sure I'll find someone I really like who's really perfect with me. Maybe.

[SteveMacD]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? No. Love is blind!

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? 50 years of a good relationship. After the sex goes, it's nice to still have something worthwile.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? I think there's the "X" factor that I honestly can't describe. There's just a chemistry that develops between two people. I don't think there's any one trait that I personally look for.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? I'm probably more of the play it safe type. Of course, I haven't had too much time for relationships, so what do I know?

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? I'd say 3 or 4. Sex is great, but there needs to be more for there to be a good relationship. In other words, a good relationship is the 23 hours and 45 minutes you're NOT having sex.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? I've written several.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? I move on. I could go for it, but if it backfires, there would be more than one broken heart. If they've committed to somebody else, then it wasn't meant to be.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Hmmm. I'd probably go for it. It would be hard to see somebody I loved slip away, but there would be six months of real love.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1: Trust. 2: Communication. 3: Sex. 4: Wealth.

10) Would you ever marry for money? Probably not. Although, it's fun to think about.

11) Would you die for the person you love? If it were THE person, I'd probably do it.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful lover.

13) How many times have you been in love? Several.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I don't think there is a magical number.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes. Love can be funny that way.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Laughter.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Games.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? It's nice, but no. I think our actions do more to say this than the words themselves.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? A little of both.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? Again, I don't think there's a magical number. I have thought I've found my soulmate several times, only to have been let down in the end. When things were good, they were great. When they weren't so good, it was over. People change over time. Situations and circumstances change and effect our views.

[lagringader&r]

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
Yes. His name is Chris. Describe? Well, he was just generally one of those perfect people. I didn't see one thing I didn't like about him, ever.

He sounds perfect. I don't want to ask what happened because that's too personal, but cool you found him. :cool:

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
10. Frequency is quality!!! :laugh:

Hell yes! :nod: Glad I'm not the only slut in the room. :shocked: :sorry:

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
Well, I might as well date them, cause according you your question I have already met them, so I would be sad anyway if they died. I'd just like to say that your version of destiny is really a pain in the ass! :laugh:

:laugh: I know. And, I'm sorry. :sorry:

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
Well...faithful, I guess. I've strayed once, but it wasn't the best plan ever.

That cheating thing isn't all it's cracked up to be, is it? :shrug:

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
mmm. Cheating? Excessive flirting while I am in the room?

How about when you're out of the room?

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
Random, in the sense that anyone can be destined for you, depending on what you need to learn or what you want at that time.

I like the way you described that. :)

[amber]

He sounds perfect. I don't want to ask what happened because that's too personal, but cool you found him.



Hell yes! :nod: Glad I'm not the only slut in the room. :shocked: :sorry:



:laugh: I know. And, I'm sorry. :sorry:



That cheating thing isn't all it's cracked up to be, is it? :shrug:



How about when you're out of the room?



I like the way you described that. :)

He moved to go to school
:lol: Being a slut is different than having sex all the time, though, isn't it?
No, it really isn't.
When I'm out of the room? Not ideal, but not as bad. No "flirting with intent" though. :mad:
Thank you.
:wavey:

[lagringader&r]

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?


my friend shelia was dating a guy mike for 7 yrs and they got engaged and had a big wedding. the night of the honeymoon mike told shelia he couldnt do this and didnt want to be married. she was heartbroken and the marriage got annulled. all the guest felt bad for her so they let her keep the gifts and she bought a new car.

anyway a couple yrs pass and shelia meets james. they fall in love and he treats her great. a couple months pass and he ends up getting really sick. turns out he has cancer all through his body. shelia sticks by him and helps take care of him while he is sick. they end up getting married in central park in new york. the drs give him three weeks to live. he was in bad pain and a hospice nurse stayed at the house with him and shelia. one morning he wouldnt wake up and shelia was so scared. his blood pressure was low. the hospice nurse said this was the first stages of dying. his family and friends came to the house to sit by his bedside. the next morning at 4:30 am he woke up for two hours and told shelia how much he loved her and how he is sorry he wasn't awake for the "party." he ended up dying that afternoon..which was tuesday of this week. shelia loves him very much and wouldn't trade the yr she had with him for nothing.

Somehow, I didn't see this at first. I'm sorry about James. He was lucky to have Sheila. That was a beautiful and happy, but sad story. :)

I was pretty much banking on everyone saying they'd take the 6 months. How could you not ? Thanks for sharing that and showing the reason to go for it. :nod:

[mylittledemon]

) Yes and no. I believe it can happen for some people, but generally it doesnt happen for most.
2) I think I would choose one year.
3) Someone who is just blown away by who I am, warts and all.
4) I think it IS better to have loved and lost...but then again because I've experienced that, I am more apt to play it safe now.
5) I'd say 7 out of 10. It's important to have sex of course. I'd say minimum twice a week, and it has too be good, to have a steady relationship. In my mind, these things fall into place if it is the right person anyways.
6) Yes
7) Good Lord, no. If that person is married, then they weren't mean to be yours. More than likely that person has come into your life as a temptation. I detest people that divorce their spouses purely because they've been eyeballing someone else.
8) Love them...and bring them the best 6 months of their life. You will never regret that.
9) Communication, Trust, Sex, Wealth
10) I don't know. I'd like to think I wouldn't.
11) If I had to.
12) I am faithful in general.
13) 3
14) Infinite
15) Mmm...I haven't experienced that yet. I don't see that happening to me. I think when you're at that point maybe you're in love with person #1, and #2 is the love of the idea of being in love with them.
16) Trust
17) Cheating (sexually)
18) No.
19) I believe people come into your life for a reason. I don't think it's luck.
20) I haven't found mine. I believe are several people for everyone in the sense that it depends on the choices you make. For example, I moved to Florida 3 years ago. I met a girl here...but what if I had stayed in Atlanta and never moved here? I would have never met her. She may not be "the one" but I wouldn't have had that experience without coming here. I may have met someone else eventually.

[dissention]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Not yet.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? The year in love.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? As long as they make me laugh on a regular basis, we connect, and I'm attracted to them, that's all I need. I suppose I've come close at times.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Loved and lost.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 10. Both.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Yes.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Move on. I'm not completely classless, after all.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Beats me, I'd have to be in that situation. :laugh:

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Sex
4. Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? No, I make enough of my own.

11) Would you die for the person you love? I don't know. Again, I'd have to be in that situation.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful. I wouldn't like it if someone I was seeing came home with someone else's germs, I wouldn't do it to them.

13) How many times have you been in love? Really in love? Once.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? Many times.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? No, I don't. I think it's selfishness, not love.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Trust in each other.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Being bossed around. That's what I have a mother for.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? Luck of the draw.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? Beats me.

[strandinthewind]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

Yes

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

The year in love - "an instant flash of light"

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Funny, smart, and likes old cars and movies. Yes, I have had it inb spades - "but now its gone - it doesn't matter anymore - but when you build that house . . . ."

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

Loved and lost.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

8 - mental connection is perhaps more wonderful, but then again, so is a drunken romp in the kitchen with some one you completely love :laugh:

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Many

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

"I'll take my dreams and my love - I'll go quietly"

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

I would stay.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Trust. Wealth. Sex.

1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Wealth
4. Sex

10) Would you ever marry for money?

No - though if a Rockefeller comes along - ask me then :laugh:

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Yes.

This reminds me of a discussion I had with a friend about 9/11. We both agreed we probably would have died because we would have gone into that building to help the people get out instead of running for our lives. So, I think that would apply to someone I loved.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

Faithful.

13) How many times have you been in love?

3

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

Many times.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Yes - though I cannot see myself ever doing that

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Trust

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

lack of respect or lack of attention

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

No

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

Luck of the draw - though I think we all control our destiny to a great degree.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

Yes - and they did indeed build that house - but I never went home

[dissention]

10) Would you ever marry for money?

No - though if a Rockefeller comes along - ask me then :laugh:


How eerie. I was going to say the EXACT same thing. :laugh:

And that Lupone photo won't load, dammit!

[strandinthewind]

How eerie. I was going to say the EXACT same thing. :laugh:

And that Lupone photo won't load, dammit!


Great minds!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[dissention]

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Readers Digest condensed version : Smart, Funny, Hunky, Grounded, Focused, Driven, Calm, Strong, Honest, Confident, Dark Haired and Eyed, and under 6' tall :) If I put together the best of two former boyfriends...pretty close.


Hehe. You described me. Though I'm not calm or grounded and I'm well over 6' tall. Oh well, let me sulk in a corner.

[strandinthewind]

Hehe. You described me. Though I'm not calm or grounded and I'm well over 6' tall. Oh well, let me sulk in a corner.


Once again, we are in the same boat - too tall for our LA friend :laugh: AS for calm - never - but I can be amusing at times :laugh: As for grounded - I have a wire sticking out just for that purpose :laugh:

[dissention]

Once again, we are in the same boat - too tall for our LA friend :laugh:

That's fine, because I hate shortys. I want to take someone to a nude beach who isn't going to be sniffing crotch the whole time.

AS for calm - never - but I can be amusing at times :laugh: As for grounded - I have a wire sticking out just for that purpose :laugh:

:laugh: I'm about as grounded as Dubya.

[strandinthewind]

That's fine, because I hate shortys. I want to take someone to a nude beach who isn't going to be sniffing crotch the whole time.

Why the hell else would you go to a nude beach :laugh: THough, I have been to them on like three continents and I never sniffed anything :laugh:



:laugh: I'm about as grounded as Dubya.

SEE - I knew there was a comparison there :laugh:

[dissention]

Why the hell else would you go to a nude beach :laugh: THough, I have been to them on like three continents and I never sniffed anything :laugh:

I've been to one and I'll never go to one again. Old balls and droopy cooters don't exactly make those beaches very pleasant. I was horrified and we quickly left.

SEE - I knew there was a comparison there :laugh:

I was in the mood to make a confession. ;)

[amber]

:laugh: I'm about as grounded as Dubya.

:lol: :laugh: :lol:
You know Dubya's imaginary friend? I'm as grounded as that guy.... :lol:

[GypsySorcerer]

I've been to one and I'll never go to one again. Old balls and droopy cooters don't exactly make those beaches very pleasant. I was horrified and we quickly left.



That's appetizing. :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

I've been to one and I'll never go to one again. Old balls and droopy cooters don't exactly make those beaches very pleasant. I was horrified and we quickly left.

Yes, it often is the peo[le who should not be naked that are the first to rip off their clothes in public :laugh:

As for the nude beach, did you being a can of Lysol with you and spray the sand :laugh: :wavey:

[GardenStateGirlie]

That's appetizing. :laugh:

You took the words right out of my mouth...makes me want to run to a nude beach :laugh: Half the time, isn't it the most grotesque of creatures stark ass naked hanging out there?

[dissention]

Yes, it often is the peo[le who should not be naked that are the first to rip off their clothes in public :laugh:

Ain't that the truth. And what is with large people wearing skin-tight clothes? I was in Target to get toothpaste today and there was a woman whose pants were on so tight she was waddling. Definite VPL's, too, and if she had farted, she'd have blown a hole through the ass of her pants. She would have been toast.

As for the nude beach, did you being a can of Lysol with you and spray the sand :laugh: :wavey:

No, I didn't. :laugh:

[SteveMacD]

I'd rather die than go to a nude beach. If for no other reason than I would be uneasy about putting on suntan lotion on certain parts of my body. I'm a red-head, damnit, and we burn VERY easily.

[strandinthewind]

I'd rather die than go to a nude beach. If for no other reason than I would be uneasy about putting on suntan lotion on certain parts of my body. I'm a red-head, damnit, and we burn VERY easily.


Lord Child - I burned my a$$$ one time when I was like 22 and then had to ride on a train for like 12 hours - OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sparky]

Hehe. You described me. Though I'm not calm or grounded and I'm well over 6' tall. Oh well, let me sulk in a corner.

Exceptions can be made. I can always slip you a Xanax to make you calm and grounded.

[sparky]

As for grounded - I have a wire sticking out just for that purpose :laugh:

I can imagine you do... :wavey:

[amber]

I'd rather die than go to a nude beach. If for no other reason than I would be uneasy about putting on suntan lotion on certain parts of my body. I'm a red-head, damnit, and we burn VERY easily.
And don't forget all the people you would blind, you cute redhead! :laugh: :xoxo:

[sparky]

That's fine, because I hate shortys. I want to take someone to a nude beach who isn't going to be sniffing crotch the whole time.

Easy, stretch.

And what, as Strand quickly pointed out, is wrong with sniffing crotch ? :xoxo:

[GateandGarden]

So, Jason and I are the only ones who put sex in fourth place, it seems. :laugh:

[amber]

So, Jason and I are the only ones who put sex in fourth place, it seems. :laugh:
buncha freaks down in Louisiana....

[GateandGarden]

buncha freaks down in Louisiana....Ah! I hadn't even made that connection! :lol:

[amber]

Ah! I hadn't even made that connection! :lol:

It's okay, Curtie did to. :)

[GateandGarden]

It's okay, Curtie did to. :)Oh yeah! :thumbsup:

Why'd you have to go and choose that option that makes you look like you're never online? You and Jason. :rolleyes: :wavey:

[amber]

Oh yeah! :thumbsup:

Why'd you have to go and choose that option that makes you look like you're never online? You and Jason. :rolleyes: :wavey:
Why not? :shrug:
Incognito Burrito!!!!

[GateandGarden]

Why not? :shrug:
Incognito Burrito!!!!But what is there to hide? :laugh: :shrug:

[amber]

But what is there to hide? :laugh: :shrug:

I'd like to play hide the burrito. :shrug:
anyways, I dunno, It just appealed to me right now. I guess it's fun to sneak up on people? I didn't think it would be a big deal. You're the second person who's said something. :confused: Curtis said I "scared him" :laugh: :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

I can imagine you do... :wavey:


and there you are an electrician - wink wink :wavey: :wavey:

[GateandGarden]

I'd like to play hide the burrito. :shrug:
anyways, I dunno, It just appealed to me right now. I guess it's fun to sneak up on people? I didn't think it would be a big deal. You're the second person who's said something. :confused: Curtis said I "scared him" :laugh: :laugh:Really? I didn't realize Curtis had said something, too. I guess we like to keep track of favorite Ledgies. :xoxo:

[strandinthewind]

Ah! I hadn't even made that connection! :lol:


Sex is overrated IMO -- There is a Thai Rest. here that is better than sex :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

Sex is overrated IMO -- There is a Thai Rest. here that is better than sex :laugh:Good to know I'm not missing that much. :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

Oh yeah! :thumbsup:

Why'd you have to go and choose that option that makes you look like you're never online? You and Jason. :rolleyes: :wavey:


Do I have that option chosen? When I look at the bottom on the page, it shows me as logged in?

[amber]

Really? I didn't realize Curtis had said something, too. I guess we like to keep track of favorite Ledgies. :xoxo:

Thanks Hill. :xoxo: I like to see who's online, too.

[strandinthewind]

Good to know I'm not missing that much. :laugh:



so you don't eat Thai food :laugh: :D

[amber]

Do I have that option chosen? When I look at the bottom on the page, it shows me as logged in?
Yeah, you're incognito, too. We can't see if you are on...

*"oh, lord child, I'm always ON!"*

[GateandGarden]

Do I have that option chosen? When I look at the bottom on the page, it shows me as logged in?It doesn't show you as logged in to others. And you don't appear on the "Who's Online" page. And your little green light next to your username is never on.

[GateandGarden]

*"oh, lord child, I'm always ON!"*:lol::lol::lol::lol:

[strandinthewind]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh - well that is kinda cool - that way no one knows when i may pounce :laugh:

[Moony]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not really...I don't know...
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?
That's cruel...but I'd have to take the one year...
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
Smart, funny, sarcastic, witty, individualistic (see also: a bit odd and/or neurotic), ...someone who "gets" me (how cliche)...no, not yet
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?
Better to have loved and lost
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
9. Frequency and quality
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
Ha...yes
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
well, normally...I'd say I'd move on...however, if it happened to be Ewan McGregor...I'd beat his wife and make a move :D
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
I'd go for it. Definitely.
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1. Trust. 2. Sex. 3. Communication. 4. Wealth.
10) Would you ever marry for money?
ONLY if the person were guaranteed to die within a year and I would get all of the fortune!
11) Would you die for the person you love?
Without question.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
Faithful.
13) How many times have you been in love?
Once...
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
? I don't know.
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
Yes
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
Affection and trust/honesty
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
Lying/cheating
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
No, but it would be nice.
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
I'm really not sure
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?
Good question. hell if I know

[strandinthewind]

*"oh, lord child, I'm always ON!"*


WHO MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE :angel:

[amber]

[B]10) Would you ever marry for money?
ONLY if the person were guaranteed to die within a year and I would get all of the fortune!


:lol: :laugh:

Your pragmatism is an inspiration to me. :laugh:

[Moony]

:lol: :laugh:

Your pragmatism is an inspiration to me. :laugh:
:xoxo: as is your fixation with sex!!!!

sighhhh *if only I could be as slutty as amber* :laugh:

I'm totally kidding :xoxo:

[amber]

:xoxo: as is your fixation with sex!!!!

sighhhh *if only I could be as slutty as amber* :laugh:

I'm totally kidding :xoxo:
:lol:

A plan is hatching in my brain. It's like any plot from any hour long mystery drama, ever.
Okay, we find someone who will die in a year. I go slut it up with him, he leaves me his money, then we split it. You will play my shady brother who thought of the whole plan and made the non detectible poison that made it look like he had a heart attack. I will break down and confess when Magnum really starts interrogating me.
*okay, but I'm not really slutty at all*

[seeker007nmss]

:lol:

A plan is hatching in my brain. It's like any plot from any hour long mystery drama, ever.
Okay, we find someone who will die in a year. I go slut it up with him, he leaves me his money, then we split it. You will play my shady brother who thought of the whole plan and made the non detectible poison that made it look like he had a heart attack. I will break down and confess when Magnum really starts interrogating me.
*okay, but I'm not really slutty at all*

Didn't Anna Nicole do something sort of like this? I think she got NADA.

[amber]

Didn't Anna Nicole do something sort of like this? I think she got NADA.
Quit saying boring factual things about my fake TV plan! :mad: :lol: :xoxo: Either laugh and get involved with the script, or move along!

[seeker007nmss]

Quit saying boring factual things about my fake TV plan! :mad: :lol: :xoxo: Either laugh and get involved with the script, or move along!

I couldn't take it serious....you didn't have a chainsaw in the story. An Amber story MUST include a chainsaw! :laugh:

[Moony]

:lol:

A plan is hatching in my brain. It's like any plot from any hour long mystery drama, ever.
Okay, we find someone who will die in a year. I go slut it up with him, he leaves me his money, then we split it. You will play my shady brother who thought of the whole plan and made the non detectible poison that made it look like he had a heart attack. I will break down and confess when Magnum really starts interrogating me.
*okay, but I'm not really slutty at all*
Omigawww...

do you know how much I love you????

lol I know you ain't slutty ;)

[amber]

Omigawww...

do you know how much I love you????

lol I know you ain't slutty ;)
:xoxo:
And, don't you think the detective should fall, at least a little bit, in love with me? :)
You will exchange thinly veiled gayish quips and smirks with the detective's butler.

[lagringader&r]

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
9. Frequency and quality

10) Would you ever marry for money?[/B]
ONLY if the person were guaranteed to die within a year and I would get all of the fortune!


Well, you put the sex at a 9 for both frequency and quality, so you do the math. **** the millionaire to death.. :nod: (Why is it that only gay men can get away with saying something like that?) And, Anna Nicole didn't do it right..

Also, everyone says that they would move on if the other person was already in a relationship. I'm not into married guys, but how do we know that someone we are truly *meant* to be with didn't just **** up and marry the wrong person? Then, nobody wins. They end up with someone who isn't right for them and so do we. :shrug:

[seeker007nmss]

:xoxo:
And, don't you think the detective should fall, at least a little bit, in love with me? :)
You will exchange thinly veiled gayish quips and smirks with the detective's butler.

And how does the chainsaw fit in? :shrug: Make it a 40's Film Noir Kinda thing. All Black and white with fog.....OOOH....and big hats.....and Quips like YOOZ guys...

[Moony]

:xoxo:
And, don't you think the detective should fall, at least a little bit, in love with me? :)
You will exchange thinly veiled gayish quips and smirks with the detective's butler.

Yes, the detective should definitely fall in love with you, so when he finds evidence of our plot he will be unable to bring charges against his beloved ;) ah, perfect!

[lagringader&r]

This thing censored me for the first time. They're onto me.. :shrug:

[Moony]

Well, you put the sex at a 9 for both frequency and quality, so you do the math. **** the millionaire to death.. :nod: (Why is it that only gay men can get away with saying something like that?) And, Anna Nicole didn't do it right..

:eek: :lol: :laugh:

Now THERE'S a plan!!!

[amber]

Yes, the detective should definitely fall in love with you, so when he finds evidence of our plot he will be unable to bring charges against his beloved ;) ah, perfect!
Okay, but then we'll have to call the show "Wussy Detective - He always gets the girl, but he never gets his man" :shrug: There's no way that detective could be cool and smooth.

[Moony]

Okay, but then we'll have to call the show "Wussy Detective - He always gets the girl, but he never gets his man" :shrug: There's no way that detective could be cool and smooth.
damn, I'll just leave the plot to you then ;) but feel free to have me seducing the billionaire's hot son or something

[amber]

damn, I'll just leave the plot to you then ;) but feel free to have me seducing the billionaire's hot son or something
Perfect. Will do. :wavey:

[SteveMacD]

And don't forget all the people you would blind, you cute redhead! :laugh: :xoxo:
:laugh:

I have the body of a god...Hey, Buddha counts!

[dissention]

Exceptions can be made. I can always slip you a Xanax to make you calm and grounded.

You'd have to slip me a few bottles of valium for even the slightest change to take effect.

[dissention]

Sex is overrated IMO -- There is a Thai Rest. here that is better than sex :laugh:


As if I needed further proof that you were completely insane and not of this Earth.

[dissention]

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
well, normally...I'd say I'd move on...however, if it happened to be Ewan McGregor...I'd beat his wife and make a move :D


I am LMAO. :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

You'd have to slip me a few bottles of valium for even the slightest change to take effect.

A LARGE syringe with a Lithium, Valium, Thorazine cocktail in it - say 1,000 CC's :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

As if I needed further proof that you were completely insane and not of this Earth.


You don't like Thai food :cool:

[dissention]

You don't like Thai food :cool:

Not as much as a roll about with a piece of hot ass. I'm a loon, but not that much of one.

[dissention]

A LARGE syringe with a Lithium, Valium, Thorazine cocktail in it - say 1,000 CC's :laugh:

And even then there are no guarantees. I've built up a tolerance to those things. :p :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

And even then there are no guarantees. I've built up a tolerance to those things. :p :laugh:


its the foil on the windows.

[Moony]

I am LMAO. :laugh:
awww I made diss laugh :D

i'm totally serious about the Ewan thing, too :angel:

[dissention]

awww I made diss laugh :D

i'm totally serious about the Ewan thing, too :angel:

Beaten wife or not, you'd still have to convert him. :laugh:

[Nico]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes, absolutely.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? 1 year of intense passion over 50 years devoid of any at all.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Funny, smart, laid-back, kind, quick, and a humanitarian...I have him now.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? No playing safe, better to have "loved and lost"...I'd rather have something to remember than die feeling there could have been more.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 10. And both

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Yes I have.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? It depends...the feelings would have to be mutual and it would have to be pretty intense, because generally I avoid those triangle things.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Go for it. I would regret it if I didn't.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. Trust and Communication are a first, then sex, and wealth would be last.

10) Would you ever marry for money? No. I am far too independent.

11) Would you die for the person you love? Yes.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? I am faithful, if you don't count occasional flirting and associating with various guy friends.

13) How many times have you been in love? Twice.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I think each person has a built-in limit.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Loyalty.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? No loyalty.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I believe in destiny and soul mates.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I truly feel each person has their own soul mate limit, but probably about two. I have only had one and he is with me now.

[golddustwoman77]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Love-No, Lust-Yes

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? Wow, this is a tough question. It depends; I think it would be extremely difficult to be totally alone for the rest of your life, but on the other hand, I would want to know just how "good" the 50 year relationship was going to be. If I knew the 50 year relationship was going to be really good minus the passion, I guess I would go for that. :shrug:

3) Describe your ideal mate.
Good Sense of Humor, Intelligent, Fun, Caring, Compassionate, and Thoughtful. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Yes, that describe the guy I married word for word. :D

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?
It is definitely better to have loved and lost. There is nothing like being in love, even if it ends badly, which it has for me before, but I don't regret a second of it. You have to take risks to find true happiness, and some of those risks aren't going to work out.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship?

7, it is important, but it shouldn't be what is keeping you together. I built a seven year relationship on sex, and I realized that was all that was keeping us together. There has to be more, and I have found it.

Frequency, quality or both?

I think quality is much, much more important than frequency.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Yes

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

I say go for it, especially if he/she is in a relationship but not married. If he/she were married, I would definitely be hesitant about it. Although, if he/she were truly happy with his/her spouse, I wouldn't be able to break it up anyway. It isn't totally in one person's hands; it takes two to tango, as they say.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

I say go for it; I believe it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
Trust, Communication, Sex, Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? No, money alone doesn't make a marriage.

11) Would you die for the person you love? It depends on how you mean that. I would risk my life to save the person I love, but I wouldn't take my own life over him.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? I am very faithful. I have had several long term relationships, and I have been married for going on eight years, and I have never strayed.
13) How many times have you been in love? Twice

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I think you can be in love several times in your life. You can love people for different reasons--each love is different.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes, you could love both of them in different ways or for different reasons.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? You have to have trust. If you can't trust your partner, you have nothing, IMO.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Extreme jealousy; I hate for someone to be so jealous that it truly interferes with the relationship. Someone you can't go out with, because a fight will ensue.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? Necessary-no, but it is nice to hear.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

I believe in destiny to some degree. I think people have a certain path that they are supposed to be on, and I think your relationships and mates are part of your path, but I also believe that people have free will and can stray from that path.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I'm not sure that there are "soul mates." I think that there are people who fit together and can make their relationship work better than others. Also, I think some people can be more compatible than others. You could be sexually compatible with one person or emotionally compatible with another person. Sometimes, you are lucky, and you find someone who is compatible to you in every way. I'm very fortunate to have found someone I'm truly compatible with on many levels.

[Moony]

Beaten wife or not, you'd still have to convert him. :laugh:
eh, a mere technicality. I've heard he swings both ways anyway :D

[strandinthewind]

Oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!! You just made my day! :blob2: :woohoo: :blob2:

Beautiful line - wish I had thought of it myself!

[sparky]

and there you are an electrician - wink wink :wavey: :wavey:

I am ?

I know my way around a pos, ground and neutral. And I know the difference between an Edison and a Hubbell. Hell, I have even replaced all the outlets in my house, but an electrician, I am not. Where did you get that, the name ? :wavey:

[strandinthewind]

I am ?

I know my way around a pos, ground and neutral. And I know the difference between an Edison and a Hubbell. Hell, I have even replaced all the outlets in my house, but an electrician, I am not. Where did you get that, the name ? :wavey:


Well, I thought a builder whose moniker is "Sparky" - :p :p :p

[KarmaContestant]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Absolutely

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? I would pass on both. A lifetime of loneliness just isn't worth it, nor is a passionless marriage.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Well, he'd be kind, tall, liberal, emotional and empathetic. He'd love animals and have the utmost respect for our environment. Oh, and he'd be able to build things with his hands. :nod: I have not met this person yet - oh wait, I did but he was heterosexual.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Uh, the first one.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? Sex rates as a 10. It's all about quality AND quantity.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? A poem, yes. They're always tragic.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Move on.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? I would go for it. Life is full of risks...and this is just one more in a string of them.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1-Trust
2-Communication
3-Sex (yes, it's still a '10')
4-Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? Yes, but only if I loved them too.

11) Would you die for the person you love? Not if it could be avoided!

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? If I'm happy, I'm faithful. If I'm unhappy, I leave. I won't cheat.

13) How many times have you been in love? Oh, gosh, more than I can count.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? As many times as they are willing to open themselves up and allow it.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Oh, yes.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? My own friends.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Putting television before everything else.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No way. It gets annoying and meaningless after a time. To quote one of my favorite singers, 'it leaves me sweetened in an artifical way'.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I live by destiny. There is no such thing as 'random'. Soul mates are everywhere, and they're not always lovers - more often, they aren't - they're best friends.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I define a 'soul mate' as someone you have known and loved in a past life (not always a'lover'), so the quantity could therefore be thousands or more. I have known what I consider to be many soul mates, and continue to meet them every now and then.

Thanks for asking.

[sparky]

Well, I thought a builder whose moniker is "Sparky" - :p :p :p

Hysterical ! You have no idea what I do for a living. I LOVE it ! :lol:

[lagringader&r]

1) 3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Well, he'd be kind, tall, liberal, emotional and empathetic. He'd love animals and have the utmost respect for our environment. Oh, and he'd be able to build things with his hands. :nod: I have not met this person yet - oh wait, I did but he was heterosexual.

:shocked: :shocked: :shocked:
That guy was straight? :confused: Where is he?

[KarmaContestant]

:shocked: :shocked: :shocked:
That guy was straight? :confused: Where is he?

:laugh: :laugh: :nod:

Tampa. His name is Chris. I can elaborate no more. Oh, except he's blonde - curly-kind-of-wavey-blonde - and has pretty blue eyes.

[DrummerDeanna]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

**Yes I do.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

**I would chose the 1 year in love with the man/woman I've always wanted :nod:


3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

**Honest, Loyal, hard-working (but not a workaholic), independent, not too needy, funny, and aware of the need to take care of himself....and yes, I've come close to fininding someone like that....but it didn't work out...

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

**It's totally better to have loved and lost - I'd not give up the loves I've had for anything...even though they've all gone caput.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

**I don't know - I go back and forth with that one -so I pass.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

**Oh God yes.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

***ooh - that's a hard one. I could not go after someone elses husband/wife - but if it were a non-married relationship I may pursue even though that's crappy - BUT if it's the person I'm MEANT to be with :shrug:

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

**I'd totally go for it...

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

**Communication: 1
Sex: 2.5
Trust: 1
Wealth: 4

10) Would you ever marry for money?

***At this point in my life? YES. :laugh:

11) Would you die for the person you love?

**Sure.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

***I'm totally faithful - I've never strayed nor have I been tempted to, I'm very single minded - so when I'm with someone that's pretty much the only person I think of being with.

13) How many times have you been in love?

**three.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

**It varies with every person, as I also think that there are varying degrees of love.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

***sure.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

**honesty

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

**Cheating


18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

**It depends on the relationship

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

**I totally believe in destiny and sould mates and ALL that crap!

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

**Not sure how many or if there is just one overall - I have not found mine - but I do feel certain that one day I will :D

[strandinthewind]

Hysterical ! You have no idea what I do for a living. I LOVE it ! :lol:

So, what do you do darlin' :ccol:

I thought you designed and built sets for movies, etc. From that, I inferred that you must have a working knowledge of electrical work as many sets I have seen and been on are hot, etc. Do you not design and build sets for a living? If not, then you are correct I have no idea what you do for a living :laugh: :sorry: :laugh:

[sparky]

I thought you designed and built sets for movies, etc. From that, I inferred that you must have a working knowledge of electrical work as many sets I have seen and been on are hot, etc. Do you not design and build sets for a living? If not, then you are correct I have no idea what you do for a living :laugh: :sorry: :laugh:

Oh, I guess you got it right. I don't build 'em though - I just pick things out, buy stuff, draw things, and point. :lol: My union won't let me build anything. I get spanked if I use tools on the job. Only my guys get to do that.

Of course I know about electricity. I was getting the idea that you pictured me in a panel truck weraing a blue shirt with a little patch on it that said "Sparky", going from house to house fixing people's bad wiring in the greater Los Angeles area. :lol:

Great idea number 75 - start my own Electrical business and only hire really hot guys ! I am sure some other homo already did that. :cool:

[strandinthewind]

. . . I was getting the idea that you pictured me in a panel truck weraing a blue shirt with a little patch on it that said "Sparky", going from house to house fixing people's bad wiring in the greater Los Angeles area. :lol:

Great idea number 75 - start my own Electrical business and only hire really hot guys ! I am sure some other homo already did that. :cool:

Well the thought of you going door to door in a sweaty uniform :eek:

I do think, however, you should open that business!!!!!!!!!

[amber]

Of course I know about electricity. I was getting the idea that you pictured me in a panel truck weraing a blue shirt with a little patch on it that said "Sparky", going from house to house fixing people's bad wiring in the greater Los Angeles area. :lol:


I was picturing you that way, even though I knew you didn't do that... :D
Also, in my vision you would often get really hot and strip down to your underneath wifebeater. Your smooth chocolate skin would glisten.....










:lol: :lol:

[sparky]

Well the thought of you going door to door in a sweaty uniform :eek:

I do think, however, you should open that business!!!!!!!!!

Hmmm...depends on who's behind the doors. Funny, I had to go under my house once and crawl around so I bought one of those one piece brown work uniforms a la UPS at the Army Navy store...it was a hoot to wear it. I am tempted to go out in it.

I am sure that business would be bang up in Weho.

[sparky]

I was picturing you that way, even though I knew you didn't do that... :D
Also, in my vision you would often get really hot and strip down to your underneath wifebeater. Your smooth chocolate skin would glisten.....
:lol: :lol:

You ? Are a hoot. Sounds like a porno movie.

Hard Wiring

Part One - Hot Socket

Part Two - Plugged In

:lol:

[strandinthewind]

Hmmm...depends on who's behind the doors. Funny, I had to go under my house once and crawl around so I bought one of those one piece brown work uniforms a la UPS at the Army Navy store...it was a hoot to wear it. I am tempted to go out in it.

I am sure that business would be bang up in Weho.


You "bought" that uniform - or was it left inadvertently at your house after the delivery :wavey: ;) :xoxo: :angel:

[amber]

You ? Are a hoot. Sounds like a porno movie.

Hard Wiring

Part One - Hot Socket

Part Two - Plugged In

:lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Part Three - Sparky Plugs.

[sparky]

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Part Three - Sparky Plugs.

THAT is brilliant ! :blob1:

[amber]

THAT is brilliant ! :blob1:
Production starts in a week. See you then, with a complete "script". :cool:

[lagringader&r]

:laugh: :laugh: :nod:

Tampa. His name is Chris. I can elaborate no more. Oh, except he's blonde - curly-kind-of-wavey-blonde - and has pretty blue eyes.

And he's hot? :shocked: I live in Cali and he lives if Fla. Well, f*ck me.. :(

[dissention]

eh, a mere technicality. I've heard he swings both ways anyway :D

If his kissing of Hayden on the mouth is any indication, you're right. :laugh:

[Moony]

If his kissing of Hayden on the mouth is any indication, you're right. :laugh:
What????

When? Where? Why? And most importantly: do you have a picture????

:]

And Hayden better watch his back. :woohoo:

[dissention]

What????

When? Where? Why? And most importantly: do you have a picture????

:]

I have VIDEO. :lol: I'll find the link. I know Perez had it up on his site.

And Hayden better watch his back. :woohoo:

I said the same thing about Ewan. :cool:

[Moony]

I have VIDEO. :lol: I'll find the link. I know Perez had it up on his site.
I said the same thing about Ewan. :cool:
!!!!!!!!! :xoxo: I need that video, man. I NEED it. (haha...am I obsessed much? :rolleyes: )

[strandinthewind]

!!!!!!!!! :xoxo: I need that video, man. I NEED it. (haha...am I obsessed much? :rolleyes: )


Here it is:

http://socialitelife.com/mt/archives/hayden_christensen_kisses_ewan_mcgregor.php

[strandinthewind]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v602/strandinthewind/hayewanbigkiss.jpg

[Moony]

Here it is:

http://socialitelife.com/mt/archives/hayden_christensen_kisses_ewan_mcgregor.php
:xoxo:

thank you jason :woohoo:

[dissention]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v602/strandinthewind/hayewanbigkiss.jpg

My, that Hayden sure is insanely phuckable. :laugh: Real men kiss on the lips!

[amber]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v602/strandinthewind/hayewanbigkiss.jpg
That's a pretty serious kiss, too. Moony, you must be DYING!!! :laugh: :laugh:

[macfanken]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v602/strandinthewind/hayewanbigkiss.jpg


I'd say they're just a tongue away from making out!

[amber]

I'd say they're just a tongue away from making out!
I think there is tongue. See the big open mouth?

[macfanken]

I think there is tongue. See the big open mouth?

Well holy hell, then they ARE making out! That's hot.

[Johnny Stew]

Well holy hell, then they ARE making out! That's hot.Wait, Ken... are you... too??? :shocked:
How did I miss this development?!?

[Moony]

That's a pretty serious kiss, too. Moony, you must be DYING!!! :laugh: :laugh:
You have NO idea!!!

[strandinthewind]

Wait, Ken... are you... too??? :shocked:
How did I miss this development?!?


You snooze you loose - oh marital bliss :xoxo:

[strandinthewind]

I'd say they're just a tongue away from making out!


In the video at the same site, the kiss is really just a peck on the lips. But, nonetheless . . . . . . :eek:

[dissention]

In the video at the same site, the kiss is really just a peck on the lips. But, nonetheless . . . . . . :eek:

Nonetheless, it's HOT. Gave me a hot flash.