Crushes on people you can't have...

[DrummerDeanna]

So, I'm sure everyone has at least one of these...a crush on someone you have no chance of ever being with...AND I'm NOT talking celebrities here...I'm talking actual people that you know and possibly interact with.

Currently I have the biggest crush on a guy at NPR who I'm 96.9% sure is gay. haha...but oh my God...my heart skips a beat at the very sight of him...which hasn't happened in a long time...I just adore him...

Anyway, he talked to me for the first time today...haha..so I'm all aflutter...but it SUCKS!! haha...I hate having crushes on unatainable people...

So yeah...any stories to share?

Oh, I might add...this is one of many impossible crushes I've had through the years of my life haha...nothing new really...just hasn't happened in a really long time...

[estranged4life]

crushes on anyone (Though I am addicted to Rita Crosby of Faux News) since I am with the person who makes me the happiest, My wife Deb...Need I say more :lol:

[darklinensuit]

So, I'm sure everyone has at least one of these...a crush on someone you have no chance of ever being with...AND I'm NOT talking celebrities here...I'm talking actual people that you know and possibly interact with.

Currently I have the biggest crush on a guy at NPR who I'm 96.9% sure is gay. haha...but oh my God...my heart skips a beat at the very sight of him...which hasn't happened in a long time...I just adore him...

Anyway, he talked to me for the first time today...haha..so I'm all aflutter...but it SUCKS!! haha...I hate having crushes on unatainable people...

So yeah...any stories to share?

Oh, I might add...this is one of many impossible crushes I've had through the years of my life haha...nothing new really...just hasn't happened in a really long time...

The biggest crush of my life was when I was twelve. This girl was so out of my league. A brunette Michelle Pfeiffer with Demi Moore's voice, but hotter. But to this day I regret never talking to her, as she used a Stevie lyric as her senior quote. I had good taste.

- Jake

[DrummerDeanna]

crushes on anyone (Though I am addicted to Rita Crosby of Faux News) since I am with the person who makes me the happiest, My wife Deb...Need I say more :lol:

:D That's nice to hear, I wish more men (and even women) had that attitude about the one's their with :nod:

[hayley]

I am currently totally in love with a co-worker, who is probably my most amazing real friend.

His girlfriend's pretty nice too.

GRAA

[DrummerDeanna]

The biggest crush of my life was when I was twelve. This girl was so out of my league. A brunette Michelle Pfeiffer with Demi Moore's voice, but hotter. But to this day I regret never talking to her, as she used a Stevie lyric as her senior quote. I had good taste.

- Jake

:laugh: she could have been your soul-mate Jake!! ;)

Yeah, my first super huge impossible crush came at age 12 as well...but the guy was our student teacher in band...and 22 years old...haha...so yeah...I had a crush on that man from 6th grade on through about 11th grade hahaha...I haven't seen him in years though...but my old band director keeps me posted as to his whereabouts...apparently he's a music professor at the University of South Carolina...haha

[estranged4life]

:D That's nice to hear, I wish more men (and even women) had that attitude about the one's their with :nod:

and I agree that most do not have that attitude. (We have been together 14 years now...Married for 11 of 'em)

[DrummerDeanna]

and I agree that most do not have that attitude. (We have been together 14 years now...Married for 11 of 'em)


That makes me happy - and gives me hope...:) And from your recent health issues (with both of you) I think it's great the support that you give to each other...really cool...

[darklinensuit]

and I agree that most do not have that attitude. (We have been together 14 years now...Married for 11 of 'em)

In our defense, we don't all have your Deb. ;) :wavey:

- Jake

[GypsySorcerer]

crushes on anyone (Though I am addicted to Rita Crosby of Faux News) since I am with the person who makes me the happiest, My wife Deb...Need I say more :lol:

Very sweet.... :D

The only person I have a crush on is my boyfriend. We went through a rough patch a month ago, but have since worked it out. :)

In high school, though, everyone I had a crush on, I couldn't have. :laugh:

[estranged4life]

In our defense, we don't all have your Deb. ;) :wavey:

- Jake

ya don't :lol: :laugh: :lol:

[darklinensuit]

In high school, though, everyone I had a crush on, I couldn't have. :laugh:

Were they principals or lunch ladies? :sorry: ;)

- Jake

[GypsySorcerer]

Were they principals or lunch ladies? :sorry: ;)

- Jake

Teachers, actually. :laugh: I was absolutely in love with my algebra teacher and my English teacher. I was more into them then guys in my class. :D

[darklinensuit]

Teachers, actually. :laugh: I was absolutely in love with my algebra teacher and my English teacher. I was more into them then guys in my class. :D

Yeah, we're pretty irresistable when you can't have us. ;) :angel:

- Jake

[DrummerDeanna]

Teachers, actually. :laugh: I was absolutely in love with my algebra teacher and my English teacher. I was more into them then guys in my class. :D

OMG...my best friend had the biggest crush on our sociology teacher in High School...it was the funniest thing....I never had any teacher crushes in high school though....except the left-over crush from the middle schools student teacher...

[DrummerDeanna]

Yeah, we're pretty irresistable when you can't have us. ;) :angel:

- Jake

:rolleyes:








:laugh: :laugh:

[estranged4life]

That makes me happy - and gives me hope...:) And from your recent health issues (with both of you) I think it's great the support that you give to each other...really cool...

health is improving more and more each day, She has an appointment to see a Radiation Specialist so the "spot" in her chest on her last PET-Scan can be evaluated (Either the remnants of the original tumor or just possibly inflamation where she had to be reopened due to the severe blood infection she had)

As for me, My health is slipping abit, Need to reschedule another appt. because I am having severe pain in my throat once again. Plus the medicine (Protoxin) I am taking has been making me nauseated everyday.

[darklinensuit]

OMG...my best friend had the biggest crush on our sociology teacher in High School...it was the funniest thing....I never had any teacher crushes in high school though....except the left-over crush from the middle schools student teacher...

I had a crush on my second grade teacher, but after that, I was taught by a parade of horse faces. I had no problem concentrating on just the lessons.

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

:rolleyes:








:laugh: :laugh:

Go stand in the corner, time-out-girl. :mad: :cool:

- Jake

[DrummerDeanna]

I had a crush on my second grade teacher, but after that, I was taught by a parade of horse faces. I had no problem concentrating on just the lessons.

- Jake

Yeah...I just couldn't see having a crush on folks we affectionately called Mr. Hairless and Mr. ****tle (actual name Hittle)....the teacher pot just wasn't as attractive to me in high school...

[estranged4life]

I had a crush on my second grade teacher, but after that, I was taught by a parade of horse faces. I had no problem concentrating on just the lessons.

- Jake

if I ever had a crush on a teacher it would've been my 8th grade English teacher Mrs.Smith...Think Lynda Carter's Wonder Woman looks combined with Dolly Parton's cleavage, Nuff said.

Good I loved 8th grade English, Plus my desk was right in front of her's due to the alphabetical order we had to sit (Let's say I ENJOYED my view daily) :lol: :nod: :lol:

[DrummerDeanna]

if I ever had a crush on a teacher it would've been my 8th grade English teacher Mrs.Smith...Think Lynda Carter's Wonder Woman looks combined with Dolly Parton's cleavage, Nuff said.

Good I loved 8th grade English, Plus my desk was right in front of her's due to the alphabetical order we had to sit (Let's say I ENJOYED my view daily) :lol: :nod: :lol:

:laugh:

wow...that is quite a combination!


and, I hope you both have a short road to healthiness...rather than a long one...and that one day very soon you're both in tip-top condition once more :D

[darklinensuit]

if I ever had a crush on a teacher it would've been my 8th grade English teacher Mrs.Smith...Think Lynda Carter's Wonder Woman looks combined with Dolly Parton's cleavage, Nuff said.

Good I loved 8th grade English, Plus my desk was right in front of her's due to the alphabetical order we had to sit (Let's say I ENJOYED my view daily) :lol: :nod: :lol:

if she wer mie teechur id' bee writingg lyke thiss. :nod:

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

the teacher pot just wasn't as attractive to me in high school...

Hey, keep your hands off the teacher stash, you stoner. ;)

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

and, I hope you both have a short road to healthiness...rather than a long one...and that one day very soon you're both in tip-top condition once more :D

What she said. :thumbsup:

- Jake

[amber]

The biggest crush of my life was when I was twelve. This girl was so out of my league. A brunette Michelle Pfeiffer with Demi Moore's voice, but hotter. But to this day I regret never talking to her, as she used a Stevie lyric as her senior quote. I had good taste.

- Jake
Which Lyric?

[Patti]

My biggest crush was my 8th grade history teacher. My goodness, I loved him from afar! Actually I think he knew it, because he used to flirt shamelessly with me and my friend who also had a crush on him. I saw him many years later at a restaurant and went over and said hello to him, and he didn't really remember me--I was devastated!!!!! :(

My current crush is Jake. :shocked: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :xoxo:

[GypsySorcerer]

Yeah, we're pretty irresistable when you can't have us. ;) :angel:

- Jake

One girl in my class did have one of you. She dated the music/chorus guy. The superintendant refused to let them go to prom together, so she started a petition. Needless to say, that didn't work, either. :shrug:

[Tango]

It's an old Gershwin tune and it's been sung by the likes of Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Barbra Streisand and Linda Ronstadt-

I've got a crush on you, sweetie pie
All the day and night-time,
hear me sigh
I never had the least notion
That I could fall with so much emotion


I bet Stevie's voice could pull this old standard off too.

[darklinensuit]

Which Lyric?

I think the ocean tide/seasons lyric from Landslide. Some of her friends chose other Stevie lyrics (I remember one quoted Think About It). It's been awhile.

- Jake

[darklinensuit]

My biggest crush was my 8th grade history teacher. My goodness, I loved him from afar! Actually I think he knew it, because he used to flirt shamelessly with me and my friend who also had a crush on him. I saw him many years later at a restaurant and went over and said hello to him, and he didn't really remember me--I was devastated!!!!! :(

My current crush is Jake. :shocked: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :xoxo:

And years from now when you bump into me at a restaurant, I won't devastate you by forgetting who you are. I'll send the bill to your table. :)

- GigoloJake

[darklinensuit]

One girl in my class did have one of you. She dated the music/chorus guy. The superintendant refused to let them go to prom together, so she started a petition. Needless to say, that didn't work, either. :shrug:

And if the music/chorus guy just would have volunteered to chaperone the prom, they could have gone together for free. :shrug:

- Jake

[amber]

I've had many a crush on a teacher/people who are older and smart. My friend kissed her senior year math teacher. My other friend's principle kissed her. None for me, though, which i should probably be glad about :p
amber

[Patti]

And years from now when you bump into me at a restaurant, I won't devastate you by forgetting who you are. I'll send the bill to your table. :)

- GigoloJake

Gee thanks, you're a doll.

[darklinensuit]

Gee thanks, you're a doll.

But less inflatable. :cool:

- Jake

[GardenStateGirlie]

But less inflatable. :cool:

- Jake

That's because your ego can't get any bigger :cool: (you walked into that :xoxo: )

[Patti]

That's because your ego can't get any bigger :cool: (you walked into that :xoxo: )

Awww, you beat me to it! I was just heading over to say something very similar. :lol: :lol: :lol:

[DrummerDeanna]

Well....I just found out that this guy (the one I have a big fat crush on) loves Lindsey Buckingham and thinks he is one of the most underrated guitarists of our time...

More fuel for my crush on a possible gay guy fire hahaha....but I'm excited, now I have my "in" I'm totally going to try and start a conversation with him about FM and Lindsey...woohoo!!

[amber]

Well....I just found out that this guy (the one I have a big fat crush on) loves Lindsey Buckingham and thinks he is one of the most underrated guitarists of our time...

More fuel for my crush on a possible gay guy fire hahaha....but I'm excited, now I have my "in" I'm totally going to try and start a conversation with him about FM and Lindsey...woohoo!!
Sweet! and so what you're saying is that talking to someone about FM can basically replace having them as a love interest? sounds about right...
AMber

[amber]

Oooo, I just remembered that my Spanish 3, jr. year teacher raised my grade from a C to a B, because, he told my friend, he thought i was very pretty. Of course he said it in spanish so I couldn't understand him :laugh: He was Italian, and was REALLY STOKED when i moved into that class (changed schools)i think we were the only 2 italian people there. but he had a fake eye, and an italian accent with his spanish, so basically i never knew what he was talking about or who he was talking to. :confused: I just kept thinking about episodes of Columbo i liked while i was in that class :laugh:
Amber

[GardenStateGirlie]

Well....I just found out that this guy (the one I have a big fat crush on) loves Lindsey Buckingham and thinks he is one of the most underrated guitarists of our time...

More fuel for my crush on a possible gay guy fire hahaha....but I'm excited, now I have my "in" I'm totally going to try and start a conversation with him about FM and Lindsey...woohoo!!

Niiiice...let's hope he's not gay!! :thumbsup:

[Patti]

Oooo, I just remembered that my Spanish 3, jr. year teacher raised my grade from a C to a B, because, he told my friend, he thought i was very pretty. Of course he said it in spanish so I couldn't understand him :laugh: He was Italian, and was REALLY STOKED when i moved into that class (changed schools)i think we were the only 2 italian people there. but he had a fake eye, and an italian accent with his spanish, so basically i never knew what he was talking about or who he was talking to. :confused: I just kept thinking about episodes of Columbo i liked while i was in that class :laugh:
Amber

Thanks for the laugh, Amber! Your description of this guy is hilarious--I'm sitting here totally bored at work, but I was LOL!!!

[DrummerDeanna]

Niiiice...let's hope he's not gay!! :thumbsup:
Ya....I'm hanging on to that 3.1% chance that he's not ;)

I'm pretty sure he is though....and talking to him about FM won't replace having him as a love interest haha...it will probably fuel my stupid crush even more....but maybe not...and then ya...the FM love can replace the possibly gay guy crush....haha

Amber..that teacher sounds a little creepy.....:eek:

[amber]

Ya....I'm hanging on to that 3.1% chance that he's not ;)

I'm pretty sure he is though....and talking to him about FM won't replace having him as a love interest haha...it will probably fuel my stupid crush even more....but maybe not...and then ya...the FM love can replace the possibly gay guy crush....haha

Amber..that teacher sounds a little creepy.....:eek:
course he was. It was funny, though, right? He was italian from italy, it may have struck him as perfectly acceptable, from what i heard. Good luck with your gayFMnoncrush! Just kidding - remember, don't keep us in suspense once you find out! Maybe you could invite him to go rollerskating....
AMber

[GardenStateGirlie]

Ya....I'm hanging on to that 3.1% chance that he's not ;)

I'm pretty sure he is though....and talking to him about FM won't replace having him as a love interest haha...it will probably fuel my stupid crush even more....but maybe not...and then ya...the FM love can replace the possibly gay guy crush....haha

All the good ones are gay or and if they're not gay, they're straight and taken... :distress: I'm just stoked he knows who Lindsey is. Hell, at the very least you'll end up with a buddy you can dish with. Is this someone from work??

[amber]

Thanks for the laugh, Amber! Your description of this guy is hilarious--I'm sitting here totally bored at work, but I was LOL!!!
Thanks, glad you did, - i did too. Imagine how bored I am at work, I wrote it! :p seriously, i have had 3 purchase orders to put in the computer today - that's it. I cleaned a couple things...totally ridiculous. oh, well, i'm getting paid for the guilt.
Amber

[DrummerDeanna]

course he was. It was funny, though, right? He was italian from italy, it may have struck him as perfectly acceptable, from what i heard. Good luck with your gayFMnoncrush! Just kidding - remember, don't keep us in suspense once you find out! Maybe you could invite him to go rollerskating....
AMber

:laugh: :laugh: Yeah...good idea...so I can fall - break my other pinky and possibly gay man can be my hero haha....all the while we can listen to Lindsey - who I'm hoping he doesn't love because he finds him hot haha..

And yeah..the teacher story is hilarious!! He sounds like someone you'd see in some movie or something...

[Patti]

Thanks, glad you did, - i did too. Imagine how bored I am at work, I wrote it! :p seriously, i have had 3 purchase orders to put in the computer today - that's it. I cleaned a couple things...totally ridiculous. oh, well, i'm getting paid for the guilt.
Amber

Hmmm, that sounds about like the busy day I've had today. Fortunately, only 10 more minutes of this and I'm done for the day--woohoo!

[amber]

Hmmm, that sounds about like the busy day I've had today. Fortunately, only 10 more minutes of this and I'm done for the day--woohoo!
Wait, it's 2:50 here. Is that central time zone? yeah, that's it. I get off at 4:00, which is in one hour so that's pretty good. Next week I start my 11-5:00 schedule, but the new trainee guy will be using some of my potential work to train with :mad: I guess i'll just have to find more interesting things to put on the ledge :p have a great night. I love your "spinning light" Lindsey avatar(that's what it looks like to me)
Amber

[darklinensuit]

Oooo, I just remembered that my Spanish 3, jr. year teacher raised my grade from a C to a B, because, he told my friend, he thought i was very pretty. Of course he said it in spanish so I couldn't understand him :laugh: He was Italian, and was REALLY STOKED when i moved into that class (changed schools)i think we were the only 2 italian people there. but he had a fake eye, and an italian accent with his spanish, so basically i never knew what he was talking about or who he was talking to. :confused: I just kept thinking about episodes of Columbo i liked while i was in that class :laugh:
Amber

As a tip, when you're telling a story about someone calling you pretty, you should leave out the part about him having a glass eye. ;) :sorry: :lol:

- Jake

[amber]

As a tip, when you're telling a story about someone calling you pretty, you should leave out the part about him having a glass eye. ;) :sorry: :lol:

- Jake
STFU. I wasn't trying to PROVE that i was pretty to anyone by posting that.
Amber

[darklinensuit]

STFU. I wasn't trying to PROVE that i was pretty to anyone by posting that.
Amber

What's STFU? I'm guessing I know the FU part.

- Jake

[DrummerDeanna]

All the good ones are gay or and if they're not gay, they're straight and taken... :distress: I'm just stoked he knows who Lindsey is. Hell, at the very least you'll end up with a buddy you can dish with. Is this someone from work??

Guess that's a good way to look at it - though I am only there for two more weeks...:(

This is someone from work...I'm so sick of being there (even though I love NPR and the internship, I'm ready to start my new job and settle down permanently)and I think that perhaps this is my way of making these last couple of weeks bearable and fun....pursuing the possibly gay man....haha...

[DrummerDeanna]

What's STFU? I'm guessing I know the FU part.

- Jake

Hmmm....I'm thinking it's shut the....and ya know what the FU is haha

[amber]

What's STFU? I'm guessing I know the FU part.

- Jake
So Thats Funny, You! (U). :D Moochas Smoochas.
Amber

[DrummerDeanna]

So Thats Funny, You! (U). :D Moochas Smoochas.
Amber


haha..tooootally not what I was thinking.....



So yeah....another update on my hopeless crush.

we had the FM conversation...he's a Linds fan, Christine comes in second...and Stevie is "ok" in his opinion..hahaha...so the battle was on ;) Just kidding, we had a lovely discussion...and I'm now even more enamored than before...though added another notch to the "yep he's gay" side....oh well...again, it's a fun distraction here at work

[Patti]

haha..tooootally not what I was thinking.....



So yeah....another update on my hopeless crush.

we had the FM conversation...he's a Linds fan, Christine comes in second...and Stevie is "ok" in his opinion..hahaha...so the battle was on ;) Just kidding, we had a lovely discussion...and I'm now even more enamored than before...though added another notch to the "yep he's gay" side....oh well...again, it's a fun distraction here at work

Well, he's not a chiffonhead, doesn't that bump up the straight possibility a notch??????? ;)

[GardenStateGirlie]

haha..tooootally not what I was thinking.....



So yeah....another update on my hopeless crush.

we had the FM conversation...he's a Linds fan, Christine comes in second...and Stevie is "ok" in his opinion..hahaha...so the battle was on ;) Just kidding, we had a lovely discussion...and I'm now even more enamored than before...though added another notch to the "yep he's gay" side....oh well...again, it's a fun distraction here at work

Nothing like a good distraction during the day :nod: But a non Stevie fan? That's just asking for trouble :laugh: What makes you think he's totally gay?? (trying to give you some hope here :nod: )

[amber]

Well, he's not a chiffonhead, doesn't that bump up the straight possibility a notch??????? ;)
That's just what i was gonna say! :laugh: I dunno, though. Lindsey is so cute, and Christine is so neat and tidy....hard to say.
Amber

[Patti]

That's just what i was gonna say! :laugh: I dunno, though. Lindsey is so cute, and Christine is so neat and tidy....hard to say.
Amber

Yeah, but I don't think Lindsey has a large gay following...

[DrummerDeanna]

Well, he's not a chiffonhead, doesn't that bump up the straight possibility a notch??????? ;)

:laugh: :laugh:

I guess so? haha....but I'm leaving in three weeks...so then I'll never see him again....

And well, I don't know how un-pc this is, but I just thought he was gay due to his effeminite mannerisms and speech patterns....which aren't overly effeminate...but there's a hint there...so I really don't know for sure...

Though when I walked into his office he was listening to Carole King...(who I also adore) and he had some Beatle stuff around....haha...I just want to touch him...:laugh: :laugh:

Ok...ya....I need therapy hahaha

[amber]

Yeah, but I don't think Lindsey has a large gay following...
The plot thickens. I love mysteries. I'm hoping soon DD will ask him "so...do you date boys or girls?"
AMber

[Patti]

The plot thickens. I love mysteries. I'm hoping soon DD will ask him "so...do you date boys or girls?"
AMber


:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Looks like another boring day shaping up for the two of us, huh?

[amber]

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Looks like another boring day shaping up for the two of us, huh?
:laugh: :laugh:
actually, I do have more work today...I'm just trying to space it out, yeah, that's it...I'm not addicted to the ledge, I swear! :lol: Besides, we have to solve: THE MYSTERY OF DD'S GAYORNOT LOVE INTEREST!! The world depends on it! I've always wanted to be a Hardy Boy :thumbsup:
Amber

[Patti]

:laugh: :laugh:
actually, I do have more work today...I'm just trying to space it out, yeah, that's it...I'm not addicted to the ledge, I swear! :lol: Besides, we have to solve: THE MYSTERY OF DD'S GAYORNOT LOVE INTEREST!! The world depends on it! I've always wanted to be a Hardy Boy :thumbsup:
Amber

I was busier today, too, until about an hour go and poof! NOTHING!

I think Deanna should seize the bull by the horns and ask him, it's the only way to know for sure!

[amber]

I was busier today, too, until about an hour go and poof! NOTHING!

I think Deanna should seize the bull by the horns and ask him, it's the only way to know for sure!
:laugh: But then what will we talk about? There are no cute guys at my work. Just the guy who was a drummer for USC when they recorded TUSK, but who is a complete :mad:. Are you off in 3 hrs.?
AMber

[GardenStateGirlie]

:laugh: :laugh:

I guess so? haha....but I'm leaving in three weeks...so then I'll never see him again....

And well, I don't know how un-pc this is, but I just thought he was gay due to his effeminite mannerisms and speech patterns....which aren't overly effeminate...but there's a hint there...so I really don't know for sure...

Though when I walked into his office he was listening to Carole King...(who I also adore) and he had some Beatle stuff around....haha...I just want to touch him...:laugh: :laugh:

Ok...ya....I need therapy hahaha

Hmm....I see your point. We're starting to sound like an episode of Sex and the City :laugh:

[Patti]

:laugh: But then what will we talk about? There are no cute guys at my work. Just the guy who was a drummer for USC when they recorded TUSK, but who is a complete :mad:. Are you off in 3 hrs.?
AMber

There definitely aren't any cute guys here! Gay or not, I could go for the eye candy. :angel:

Nope, not 3 hours, I'm leaving at 4:30 today, so that is only, what...2 hours and 15 minutes from now--YAY! Gotta hit the gym this afternoon for some weight training and get some meds for my injured doggie. :( Well, I'm sure that's more information than anyone cared to know...lol.

[amber]

There definitely aren't any cute guys here! Gay or not, I could go for the eye candy. :angel:

Nope, not 3 hours, I'm leaving at 4:30 today, so that is only, what...2 hours and 15 minutes from now--YAY! Gotta hit the gym this afternoon for some weight training and get some meds for my injured doggie. :( Well, I'm sure that's more information than anyone cared to know...lol.
Woohoo! Hope your dog's ok, and way to go on the gym. My (favorite) cat was sick awhile ago, and i was bawling in the waiting room, then i was bawling when i paid the bill :( . He didn't get hit, did he?
AMber

[DrummerDeanna]

Well, I have another intern on the case...she's going to ask someone close to the source if he is gay - I'm way too much of a chicken to do it....so there will be a definitive answer shortly (I hope)

Also...Patti- hope your dog gets better....

I was going to go to the gym tonight, but it looks like I'm not going to get home in time...it will already be closed :( I"ve actually been waking up early to go before work...it keeps me feeling energized and optimistic throughout the day....but today I just couldn't drag myself out of bed on time...

It's amazing...I am slammed with work today, literally back to back to back meetings and things to do...yet I still find time to post messages here haha...now I'm about to grab a quick bite to eat before my next meeting....

Of course, I'm taking a detour out of the building which will include me passing by my crush's office :D

[Patti]

Woohoo! Hope your dog's ok, and way to go on the gym. My (favorite) cat was sick awhile ago, and i was bawling in the waiting room, then i was bawling when i paid the bill :( . He didn't get hit, did he?
AMber

No he didn't get hit, he's got a touch of arthritis and he gets a bit sore. He loves to chase his next door neighbor girlfriend, Claire, up and down the fence and then aggravates his hip. He's much better now, though. We went for a walk this morning and he was all puppy-like, just like his normal self. I'm just getting the meds to have on hand in case he hurts himself again.

I know what you mean about the vet bills, I have 3 dogs and a cat(who has feline leukemia)--it's expensive !

Thanks for the well wishes, Deanna, he'll be fine, he's just getting a little older. Can't wait to hear the gay/not-gay verdict!!!!!

[amber]

It's amazing...I am slammed with work today, literally back to back to back meetings and things to do...yet I still find time to post messages here haha...now I'm about to grab a quick bite to eat before my next meeting....


I'm glad to see your priorities are in order :laugh: Your so lucky to be busy. Yeah, going to the gym early does make you feel great, judging by the one time i managed to do it. :p I'm a sleeper extroardinaire, go to bed late-er, etc. Wish I wasn't, but...
Good idea getting the other person to ferret the answer out for you. A super spy slueth never reveals her identity...Nancy Drew :lol:
AMber

[DrummerDeanna]

Soooo...I finally asked the intern in this guy's department if he's gay....















I bet you're curious as to what I found out.....























HE'S NOT GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :blob1: :blob1: :blob1:

Not that this really means anything for me, as I'm pretty sure that he won't look my way *in that way* haha...but hey....at least now I know...

[Tango]

There definitely aren't any cute guys here! Gay or not, I could go for the eye candy. :angel:

Nope, not 3 hours, I'm leaving at 4:30 today, so that is only, what...2 hours and 15 minutes from now--YAY! Gotta hit the gym this afternoon for some weight training and get some meds for my injured doggie. :( Well, I'm sure that's more information than anyone cared to know...lol.

I'm sorry to hear you've got an injured dog, Patti. I hope he'll be better soon. The gym? That's always great to hear! I hit the gym a few days a week.

Congrats, Deanna. I think if you somehow wind up with this non-gay guy, you'll have to invite Patti along to the festivities as she got you to ask! :laugh:

[Patti]

Hey Deanna, that's great!!!! Now you need to ask him out or something. Hey it's only for a few weeks, but it could be a FUN few weeks! ;)

[DrummerDeanna]

Hey Deanna, that's great!!!! Now you need to ask him out or something. Hey it's only for a few weeks, but it could be a FUN few weeks! ;)


haha..I'm waaaay too much of a chicken-sh*t. haha...but yeah, I'm going to be seeing him at a meeting later today...and I'll up the flirt notch...haha...:rolleyes: I'm SO not one for flirting and such though, I'm so lame when it comes to stuff like that haha...

anyway, at least I know I'm not barking up the wrong tree :laugh:

[GardenStateGirlie]

haha..I'm waaaay too much of a chicken-sh*t. haha...but yeah, I'm going to be seeing him at a meeting later today...and I'll up the flirt notch...haha...:rolleyes: I'm SO not one for flirting and such though, I'm so lame when it comes to stuff like that haha...

anyway, at least I know I'm not barking up the wrong tree :laugh:

Excellent! So...I guess this means your "gaydar" was
slightly off :p Does he actually work for them or is he interning as well?

[cliffdweller]

Yeah...I just couldn't see having a crush on folks we affectionately called Mr. Hairless and Mr. ****tle (actual name Hittle)....the teacher pot just wasn't as attractive to me in high school...

That's what college is for. I had the BIGGEST crush on my Archaeology professor my sophomore year. I loved going to that guy's class every Tuesday and Thursday. He had this amazing personality, was brilliant and funny, and he was youngish, I think he was in his early 30's. Plus there was always that Indiana Jones thing about him, he worked in the field mostly and was intensely fascinating. If I were to ever have an affair with one of my professors he would have been it! But of course I'm way too appropriate for that...ahem, cough...

[amber]

You little tease! (DD, keeping us in suspense with her post). Wow, I was sure he'd be gay. I'm still a little suspicious, but i gotta go with the evidence. Congrats on a cute boy to flirt with, and even better, Mac with :laugh:
Amber

[DrummerDeanna]

You little tease! (DD, keeping us in suspense with her post). Wow, I was sure he'd be gay. I'm still a little suspicious, but i gotta go with the evidence. Congrats on a cute boy to flirt with, and even better, Mac with :laugh:
Amber

:laugh: Frankly, I'm still a little suspicious as well haha....

But yeah...he's older than I, probably in his early/mid 30's...I'm in my early/mid twenties :) and he's not an intern, he's a regular employee...who's actually been heard on the air from time to time...he holds a relatively high position....so yeah...no chance for me....but damn. He's just beautiful and I enjoy just getting to look at him now and again....

[amber]

:laugh: Frankly, I'm still a little suspicious as well haha....

But yeah...he's older than I, probably in his early/mid 30's...I'm in my early/mid twenties :) and he's not an intern, he's a regular employee...who's actually been heard on the air from time to time...he holds a relatively high position....so yeah...no chance for me....but damn. He's just beautiful and I enjoy just getting to look at him now and again....
ok, but i don't think any of those factors preclude him liking you, or whatever.
A)Older men, yummm
B) High position, no chance for you? :shrug: I don't think so :D
But anyway, have a great time! I would be happy just to have a few more Macversations.
AMber

[Patti]

Well Deanna, be sure and keep us posted on the events in DC. I don't think a 10 year-ish age difference is any big deal. Just keep talking to him about Lindsey--that'll work!