How Old Is Too Old To Lose Your Virginity??

[sara1998]

Originally Posted by Jyqm

I would guess that some of your friend's friends were just flat out lying. Otherwise that's a bit disturbing. I really doubt that many or any 12 or 14 year olds are remotely mature enough to be able to deal with the incredible responsibility - both physical and emotional - that sex entails.

I'm here to tell you, 12-14 year old children are in no way capable of handling the emotional or physical aspects of sex. If they have or are having sex at that age, it's peer pressure, or, there's something wrong going on at home. A lot of kids that age say they're doing it, and lying about it, to feel like they're cool. It is disturbing. I'm too embarrassed to tell when I lost mine, but, if you're too young like I was, you'll feel self conscious about it for years to come. I only wish that when I was 19 I could honestly say I was still a virgin. Be proud of yourself you've held out for so long, and don't worry that you are too old. When you find the right one, you'll know when it's time!