How Old Is Too Old To Lose Your Virginity??

[foxyluva]

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??

[markolas]

I was 22, I think...so you're not too old.

[wondergirl9847]

I am 29 and am one. Waiting until marriage is my whole thing, but I've never even had a real boyfriend, so....like I have a freakin' choice.

I don't believe ANY age is too wierd. If you aren't comfortable, then, don't do it. Gay, straight, I don't care. My mom knew May Owen (socialite from Fort Worth) and she told my mom one time that she lived to be in her 90's because she'd never had sex.

I will say that 11, 12, 13, 14 is scary. That is WAY too young to even be discussing having sex. I didn't even know what it was until I was like, 12 or
13, but that was in the 80's....ahhh, such a simpler time. LOL!!

[foxyluva]

Dont get me wrong, im kinda proud of being one, but, it suddenly occured to me that all my friends, and i mean all are no longer virgins, and it seems like im the last horse to cross the finish line

It was just a question that i wanted some opinions on, its not like im going threw a personal crisis or anything

[markolas]

Originally Posted by wondergirl9847

I am 29 and am one. Waiting until marriage is my whole thing, but I've never even had a real boyfriend, so....like I have a freakin' choice.

If I waited until marriage, I'd be waiting a loooooooooooong time.

I will say that 11, 12, 13, 14 is scary. That is WAY too young to even be discussing having sex. I didn't even know what it was until I was like, 12 or
13, but that was in the 80's....ahhh, such a simpler time. LOL!!

Is it even possible to have sex when you're 11 or 12??

[wondergirl9847]

Originally Posted by markolas

If I waited until marriage, I'd be waiting a loooooooooooong time.



Is it even possible to have sex when you're 11 or 12??

Marriage is NOT a piece of paper, my friend.

I've heard of like, 10 year old girls being pregnant, so yes, at 11,12...they can.

[foxyluva]

Originally Posted by markolas

If I waited until marriage, I'd be waiting a loooooooooooong time.



Is it even possible to have sex when you're 11 or 12??

I know, i didnt even know what it was until 12, let alone actually doing it

[BTFLCHLD]

well...there is such a thing as waiting too long
if there arent any marriage material prospects
on the horizon...at least thats what some
woman was moaning about in an article i read...
now the idea of it has her terrified more than anything.
i have a really dumb quesiton to ask...but i wont.
i will research the net for answers

[BTFLCHLD]

Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

well...there is such a thing as waiting too long
if there arent any marriage material prospects
on the horizon...at least thats what some
woman was moaning about in an article i read...
now the idea of it has her terrified more than anything.
i have a really dumb quesiton to ask...but i wont.
i will research the net for answers

IMO anyone under 18 shouldnt be indulging
thats what i would want for my kids anyway
may not be realistic but thats what id like them to strive for
saying that...i dont have kids.

[Serendipity]

Guessing the question should probably really be "how young is too young?"!!

All I know, I was pretty average for the people I know but my little sister is that age now, and I would hate to think of her going there! Altho i guess its a bit different because at least I had a long term boyfriend I cared about, and she doesnt.

In short, I dont know the answer to your question. But younger than the age of consent (16 here), is too young, IMO, physcially and emotionally. Other than that, whenever you feel mature enough and "ready" (whatever that means". And take proper precautions, obviously!

You're never too old, its not weird, its just doing whats right for you!!!!

~Nicki

[ontheEdgeof17]

I'm 23 and still a virgin.

[markolas]

Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

I'm 23 and still a virgin.

Are not.

[Karlie]

I'm 15 and a virgin, and so are almost all of my friends.

[macfanken]

Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

I'm 23 and still a virgin.

Lies!!!

[amber]

Too old is if you feel like you may explode or implode, and then you do. That's how you know you were too old.
Too young is people should wait until they're out of highschool (perhaps specifically for oh, about 10 days, and then maybe 10 days before your 18th birthday. For example) So that no one will know about your sh**, and no one will be talking about it all around school. That was one of my specific reasons/things I wanted to avoid at all costs.