How Old Is Too Old To Lose Your Virginity?? - Page 2

SuzeQuze · #16 11-01-2005, 07:03 PM

I don't think there's anything weird about being a 19 year old virgin. That is still very young and I'm sure it is normal. People talk a good talk about sex but who knows what the truth is. I know things have gotten much looser lately and it is sad. If I had it to do over again I would wait wait wait!!! When you know who you are as a person and are comfortable with that and have something to share then that may be a good time. I think early sex really messes with your identity. Especially if you pick a sociopath.

BTFLCHLD · #17 11-01-2005, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

well...there is such a thing as waiting too long
if there arent any marriage material prospects
on the horizon...at least thats what some
woman was moaning about in an article i read...
now the idea of it has her terrified more than anything.
i have a really dumb quesiton to ask...but i wont.
i will research the net for answers

IMO anyone under 18 shouldnt be indulging
thats what i would want for my kids anyway
may not be realistic but thats what id like them to strive for
saying that...i dont have kids.

Nixxxed · #18 11-01-2005, 07:07 PM

Don't rush it. When it's right, it's right - for YOU, not for anyone else.

Also, don't be hung up on one physical act. There are many ways to experience intimacy and/or pleasure. So, technically, you're a virgin for all those, too.

And I'm not talking about only sex. Have you ever slow-danced with your loved one on a dance floor? How about a romantic picnic? Walked hand-in-hand down the street? Kissed in public? Those types of things can provide just as big a rush, and be just as fulfilling, than anything you could do in bed.

One last suggestion - PLAY SAFE. And good luck, and have fun, on your own terms.

wondergirl9847 · #19 11-01-2005, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

I think early sex really messes with your identity. Especially if you pick a sociopath.

Then, I don't really think sex is what you need to be worrying about.

LOL

Karlie · #20 11-01-2005, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

IMO anyone under 18 shouldnt be indulging
thats what i would want for my kids anyway
may not be realistic but thats what id like them to strive for
saying that...i dont have kids.

OMG your signature is hilarious! I love your icon too.

SuzeQuze · #21 11-01-2005, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by wondergirl9847

Then, I don't really think sex is what you need to be worrying about.

LOL

Haha! I was really unlucky and the BF was a lying bastard who had no capacity for empathy or real caring. Isn't that swell?

wondergirl9847 · #22 11-01-2005, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Haha! I was really unlucky and the BF was a lying bastard who had no capacity for empathy or real caring. Isn't that swell?

You came to your senses.

CelticGypsy · #23 11-01-2005, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by foxyluva

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one

but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??

I was 22 and I had been engaged for about six months. What happened, I got pregnant but at least the wedding date had been already been planned three weeks later. Yes, I could have waited but at least I waited for the right man and he was the only one and we are happy after 27 years of marriage. He still makes me tingle

Better to wait for that right person. I have grown up kids that had sex for first time at ages 16 and 19. Messed up relationships and they would drift from one boyfriend to another. They are older and wiser now and finally have learned that casual sex is not as great as everyone told them it would be. It is better to be in a relationship with somebody you love and respect than have sex with someone you could care less about. Less stress and worries.

xdreamsunwindx · #24 11-01-2005, 08:09 PM

Humping on the parking meter's always fun.

*g* nobody gets it yay!

macfanken · #25 11-01-2005, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

I'm 23 and still a virgin.

Lies!!!

amber · #26 11-01-2005, 08:35 PM

Too old is if you feel like you may explode or implode, and then you do. That's how you know you were too old.
Too young is people should wait until they're out of highschool (perhaps specifically for oh, about 10 days, and then maybe 10 days before your 18th birthday. For example) So that no one will know about your sh**, and no one will be talking about it all around school. That was one of my specific reasons/things I wanted to avoid at all costs.

SortaSavageLike · #27 11-01-2005, 08:44 PM

126 years.

Hey, I like to be optimistic from time to time!

Brwn_eyes0511 · #28 11-01-2005, 08:47 PM

Call it the Catholic in me...but 14! WTF!!!???

ryan8472 · #29 11-01-2005, 09:04 PM

Gawd, now I feel like a little hussy.

Stephanie · #30 11-01-2005, 09:07 PM

I was 15, but it just so happened that I married the guy 10 years after that and we have now been together a total of 15 years!

But I don't even want to think about my future children having sex that young. I would rather a person wait and be happy than be too young and be sorry.