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showed up it could become a circus. And I might be the only one who feels this way. But I find no comfort when friends and family show up at funerals. When my father passed in 2004, he had well over 800 people show up at the wake. It's funny when people are grieving the most, they are the ones who have to put on a show for everyone else. As a Christian maybe I shouldn't feel this way. But I found no comfort at all during the wake and funeral. Or even during the days and days of visits from friends and loved ones. So I think sending a card and expressing your condolences is enough. Unless there's something you can actually do for the family without intruding on their time of grief and sorrow. |
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I feel its up to them .if they can make it.I already experienced 4 funerals in the family.My dad was the latest one last February.Some people did show up to pay respects and some did not show.I did not hold anything against the friends that did not show up.
Some of them I did see months after the loss did say I'm sorry about your loss of your love one.I tell them thank you.
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these rituals we have. It's time we re-think the wake and funeral one. |
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I always found it ridiculous.
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But, what about all the other non-family who loved them too or were touched by their life? They don't get the chance to grieve or pay respects.
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Ok maybe I'm running out of the topic. But thinking about Bob relatives, or any public figure, I guess relatives got stressed because of the media cover when it should be a private thing. You have a point, no doubt. For example thousands of people wanted to pay respect to Princess Diana (something the Queen couldn't understand), but I don't know if the family really wanted that ceremony with live broadcasts, the boys walking behind the coffin, etc. Ok Bob's funeral is far smaller, but who knows what the family wants. Maybe paying respect thru a webpage is just ok for them and will appreciate enough. Who knows.
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I personally find more peace there in private than I ever have at a funeral home. I've said words there that was between them, myself and God. And while I don't believe the person that's passed away can hear you, it still gives a bit of closure to me at least. If their soul has made it to Heaven, I can't imagine them looking down on this world as it is now. There's just too much pain and sadness. The comfort is in knowing that we have the opportunity to see them again. |
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