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Old 12-08-2010, 09:22 AM
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Dodfather! Everyone should enjoy what they enjoy with another consenting adult, obviously.
This was true confessions time. My failings. My hangups, my situation. For me, no way from a woman. I'd never be able to look her in the face again. To me, that's an act between two men, I'd hate it from a woman. I know, messed up.
I also see that as an act between two women, and can't do it. I also don't like an act most gay men like, at least one of the two guys, but don't dislike it with a female in the traditional or 'missionary' sense- it's been so long, I forgot the term!
So, you see, it's not a debate. It's dysfunction. I think. Definitely.
"I" don't get... lead to the part you quoted.
I expect everyone to disagree.
If I could enjoy what I don't enjoy, I would. But I don't, so I can't. Everyone else should!

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My ex-roomate (a guy) (I was not in a relationship with him) didn't like it. He never said why, though.
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:01 AM
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I've never found the idea appealing myself either really, giving or getting. Sorry guys, nothing below the belt is going in my mouth.
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:06 AM
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I've never found the idea appealing myself either really, giving or getting. Sorry guys, nothing below the belt is going in my mouth.
Seriously, same here. I thought I was the only one :\
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:07 AM
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I've never found the idea appealing myself either really, giving or getting. Sorry guys, nothing below the belt is going in my mouth.
I ain't putting anything that belongs to a guy in my mouth that's from downstairs. However, if it's from me, well that's another story
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:09 AM
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Seriously, same here. I thought I was the only one :\
Oh I have several women friends, and one ex gf, who just are not into it at all. That's fine with me because I don't "expect" it - you're a complete ass if you do! It's all about personal choice. I have no issues doing it even if I don't get the same treatment back, but again it's not for everyone.
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:13 AM
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Reading the girls who are younger than me talk about this subject is making me feel like a complete Freak for still being a proud owner of my V card.....lol....*blush*
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Reading the girls who are younger than me talk about this subject is making me feel like a complete Freak for still being a proud owner of my V card.....lol....*blush*
I still have my V card too, but i just have a very dirty mind.
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:17 AM
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Reading the girls who are younger than me talk about this subject is making me feel like a complete Freak for still being a proud owner of my V card.....lol....*blush*

You DEFINITELY are not a freak, I would know.

I've never actually gone all the way, either....but I said above 'bottom' because I am there when I'm making out with a guy....and I can still say I would never give oral because, well, I just never would.
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:24 AM
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Guys,

I think I can speak for most memebers of this forum and posters to this thread (please correct me and accept my spologies if this is not the case) when I say that the intention of this thread was not to make anyone feel less than anyone else. No-one is a "freak", has reason to be embarassed, or anything off that nature. Please do not "compare" your own lives and experiences to anything read here in a non-favourable way.

I for one feel that this thread in fact promotes the opposite response. It lets us see that everyone is different and has stories to tell without fear of ridicule.
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:25 AM
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I am sorry, Dodfather for the first PM to you. Had a panic attack. Dodfather did nothing wrong. Just because I got all serious, doesn't mean others can't have fun. I mean, I was wrong to freak out. Just as I sent a 2nd PM telling Dodfather I was wrong, he sent me a reply to my first frantic one, very nice, removed his message, which he needn't have done, and now I feel like an idiot. Again.
Have fun. Live and let live. I know I'm a trainwreck! Go for it!
Apologies again, dodfather.
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Old 12-08-2010, 10:27 AM
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Nikolaj - I sent you another pm but I couldnt get it through because your inbox is full. E-mailed you instead. Al.
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Reading the girls who are younger than me talk about this subject is making me feel like a complete Freak for still being a proud owner of my V card.....lol....*blush*
I still have mine!! And I'm so damn glad. I've discussed going that far with boyfriends but now, I'm so glad I haven't, they wouldn't have been worth it. It's something more personal to me than it is a lot of the people I interact with on a day to day basis. I care about saving myself for the right boy or girl than most of them do/did.
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Old 12-08-2010, 11:32 AM
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I still have mine!! And I'm so damn glad. I've discussed going that far with boyfriends but now, I'm so glad I haven't, they wouldn't have been worth it. It's something more personal to me than it is a lot of the people I interact with on a day to day basis. I care about saving myself for the right boy or girl than most of them do/did.
Oh man I feel like the only one in our age group on here who still doesnt have it.

I have a lot of respect for people who choose to wait. And I completle agree with you that it's not that personal for most people. It was something very personal for me.
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Old 12-08-2010, 11:39 AM
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Reading the girls who are younger than me talk about this subject is making me feel like a complete Freak for still being a proud owner of my V card.....lol....*blush*
Proud owner of mine too, I'm only 17 but seem to be one of the only people in my year who doesn't want to lose it ASAP...
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