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I think you are coming at it from a personal and not biological perspective. it is abnormal from a biological perspective just as not being able to see, hear, walk, talk, etc. is abnormal. We are hard wired to be able to do those things. From a personal or subjective state. Yes, it would be judgemental (good or bad) to assume this person's biological abnormality (if that is what is going on here) is not up to my standards. It is two separate thoughts. |
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Whether or not the issue is so personal for me is uncertain. I don't consider myself asexual, but I suppose the parallel between the ignorance that surrounds asexuality and the ignorance that surrounds homosexuality made it personal enough. Still, since biology (like all sciences except physics, I believe) is ever-changing, I think it's possible that we could discover that human beings can have a natural disinclination towards sex. |
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I was just noting that the fact that we have glands and hormones means we are built to want to use our sex organs. How or how often we use them is where the ridiculous ignorance you are talking about comes into play. I mean I am into NM (Neiman Marcus) not S&M and cannot really fathom the whole put me in a locked cage in the basement until you get home work and then beat the hell out of me until dawn so I can ejaculate and enjoy it sect out there (and I know people who do this mind you) - but for me to say "that is sick" or "that is unnatural" is wrong in the sense that what I like sexually (from tickeling my knees to whatever) is open for that same judgement. So, it is IMO and though it is hard for most if not all, best not judge consenual behavior, which is I think what you are talking about in part. I mean if someone waits until they are 45 before ever touching another person, who am I to tell them that is wrong or abormal if they have all of their biological parts in tact and are truly just not interested. Just because we have a sex drive (maybe manifested only in yearing or dreams) does not mean we are under an obligation from a social perspective to use it. |
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Understand, I dont know if this is the cause, but if it is even part of the problem, then she will definitely need to see a sex therapist if she WANTS to have sex. Ultimately, this whole topic turns on whether your friend is actually bothered by her reaction or not--in other words, does she WANT to have sex and find that she cant? If so, she should see a sex therapist. If on the other hand, she is just not turned on by sex, then I dont know what to say about that...I have no frame of reference for that, and no training and Im not about to make a guess. |
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