[Nikolaj]

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Dodfather! Everyone should enjoy what they enjoy with another consenting adult, obviously.
This was true confessions time. My failings. My hangups, my situation. For me, no way from a woman. I'd never be able to look her in the face again. To me, that's an act between two men, I'd hate it from a woman. I know, messed up.
I also see that as an act between two women, and can't do it. I also don't like an act most gay men like, at least one of the two guys, but don't dislike it with a female in the traditional or 'missionary' sense- it's been so long, I forgot the term!
So, you see, it's not a debate. It's dysfunction. I think. Definitely.
"I" don't get... lead to the part you quoted.
I expect everyone to disagree.
If I could enjoy what I don't enjoy, I would. But I don't, so I can't. Everyone else should!