LOL - well the woman who told me that is a hard-core lesbian herself - and she claims that Terri is a lesbian but can't really come out in the "country music world"
So to back this claim, Lori (that was the lesbian manager's name) said that at a Terri show, Lori got to go meet her backstage (she got to do that with all the country acts) and anyway - as she was leaving she said Terri leaned over to hug her and whispered in her ear, "Great earring, wish I could wear one" - Lori was wearing a rainbow earring.
Don't know if that's true or not....